We should make this happen ... somehow.
@The_Whore_of_Blahbylon Unfortunately, it often is somebody else doing the dishes after those.
@FailForward That's usually because 3rd parties get arbitrarily involved and make the mess worse. This is why you keep doors closed as a habit rather than never questioning why.
@lucifargundam If it only were that simple... If you keep your doors closed, nothing good will happen to you either. So if you want opportunities to come by, you keep it open and expose yourself to risk. The key for me was to build up resilience and calm mind to withstand the damage when the time to lick the spoon comes.
@FailForward @The_Whore_of_Blahbylon
To be clear, I'm not attributing closed doors to locked doors. Only suggesting passive filtration of passerby.
Keeping a community/group's harmony(or lack thereof) in order is only as consistent/stable as the establishment/platform that is being maintained(if at all).
So if someone were to stir the shitpot :P they should have a taste before being tossed out with the contents :^}
And then the door shut behind them.
