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People can become assholes at any point. It happens. Unfortunately, some flaws are easier to look past than others. Ultimately, no-one is perfect and people you like will often have an ugly side you won't want to see.
I'm sorry you got to see someone's rear-end. The only advice I can give you is to try and wash your consciousness of it. Pulling people's skeletons out of the closet will only show how grim their lives behind closed doors are.
Having been an faux silent arbiter on Fedi for a while now has shown me how many potential connections their _would be_ and how many _would never_ happen based on varying interests and stances.
