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Am I the only one who feels its weird that we as humans have this unwritten rule that two people need to stick their genitals in each other in order to be candidates for raising a child. Many would assume that a marriage without romantic love would not result in as good a child as one that does...
But the more I think about it the more I think it shouldnt be so hard to be close with someone in a non-romantic sense and have enough emotional respect and enjoy each other company enough that it would be a wonderful environment.
But even without a kid in the picture this setup is unheard of. You just dont have two people who want to bond and live together and share a life if sex isnt in it, and good sex. Hell I've had that opinion myself at many times. But it just makes no logical sense, its not like humans cant go around having amazing sex with whoever they want, but again we just dont let that fly in this species I guess... humans are weird.
@freemo bufff... Romantic, good sex, genital stickment. Forget all those words there is no real romantic relation, good sex, enough sex, children are expensive but cars, houses, drugs, alcohol, amusement etc are expensive too and everyone have some of then.
I think couples have to be very close friends, real friends. A person you can trust and the other can trust on you too.
Do not imagine you are having sex until you realize that you are having it. This could be your best sex if you do not expect to have it and you don' t expect to have it good. That is why it is that hard to have good sex, even have sex.
Romanticisme, toxic waste hehehe.
Have children is the very hard decision. Life time comitment but for me was my very best decision, almost the unique good decision. Hehehe
Do not hesitate, stick to your mate, stick to life.
