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@royalbeagle 我也看到三星输入法那个问题了。打字的时候右边确实有个搜狗的标,但是我洁癖,没开搜狗云输入,不知道这样会不会引发类似的问题。我问了问其他人,但是目前也没人能解答这个问题。

只不过三星输入法系统自带,用第三方切dex会自动切回三星。刚入三星坑的时候我也挣扎了一下,后来拗不过系统,就放弃了(

给《手把手教你建立边界感》写了一篇续,主要摘抄了书中在工作方面我比较喜欢的内容和具体案例。
在文中可以读到:
- 一个经典的反向行为面试问题看公司是不是有毒
- 如何在在工作场合中设定边界
- 案例:临时来活儿了咋办,同事说了不合适的话咋办,会议超时咋办,同事人不错但爱问东问西咋办

很推荐大家阅读整本书。书中有超多例子,之后我还会记录家庭、朋友、亲密关系等方面的内容。

yitaoli2023.github.io/yitaoli/

没想到我成了读书博主!读了The Book of Boundaries之后写了读书笔记《手把手教你建立边界感》。 yitaoli2023.github.io/yitaoli/

在文中可以读到
- 边界的定义
- 如何调整心态(从而设定边界)
- 如何设定边界
- 设定边界之后,别人gaslight我怎么办

其实逛她乡也发现满多人际关系相关的问题可以通过设定边界来解决。很可惜很多人和我一样没有自然地在成长过程中从家人身上学习到。不过现在读书也不迟!

书中根据不同类别和情形,给了超多例子,我觉得很方便,有的时候不知道话怎么说的时候可以直接用。应该会写一篇续集来记录我比较受用的例子。

苏州博物馆有一组很可爱的玉石小乐器。

原来渡鸦和狼有共生关系,渡鸦会帮狼侦查,而狼会帮忙咬开动物尸体方便渡鸦食用。渡鸦会“收养”一只狼崽,陪伴这只狼长大,一起玩耍。比如衔着树枝让狼跳起来,用树枝和狼玩拔河游戏,甚至直接去抓狼的尾巴。等狼年纪大了离开狼群,这只渡鸦也会跟着它一起离开。看完就想到了《冰与火之歌》和《神之天平》,不知道是不是有意用了这层意思哈…
yellowstone.org/naturalist-not

为什么我喜欢墙外的现代文化,我的过往经历极端反对墙内传统,确实给我带来了更好更轻松的生活。

开始读How Not to Die,瑟瑟发抖。开始吃素了,阿弥陀佛 :neocat_0_0:

卫报发了文 It’s Difficult to Survive: China’s LGBTQ Advocates Face Jail and Forced Confession
https://www.theguardian.com/global-development/2024/jan/15/its-difficult-to-survive-chinas-lgbtq-advocates-face-jail-and-forced-confession

令人落泪。几个月来,紫壑去世了,魔骨入狱,为魔骨奔走的盐田也过劳而死,还有几个我的朋友们在前线苦苦支撑,我都不敢道出伊们的名字。只希望我们做的纪念网站上缅怀的人能少几名。我们只是要生活,便被逼成这个样子。不是我要做 advocate,而是我们要继续生活只能被迫成为 advocate。虽然生活本身是政治性的,但是我们的生活就是更容易受到实际政治的影响,我们就是政治易感人群。这几年来随着雌二醇网售禁售和对私下分发药物的打击力度加大,政策收紧,已经没有任何岁月静好的可能。

Firefox is fighting to make browsing fairer!

Introducing our new issue tracker to document challenges where platforms put Firefox at a disadvantage.

We're committed to a level playing field for all. We call on Apple, Google, and Microsoft to engage with us in this new forum to speedily resolve these concerns. blog.mozilla.org/netpolicy/202 #firefox #opensource

Dont forget to thank the local NTP Gods for just making sure that you have not thought about NTP for the past year

Ai新毒药nightshade 的正式版已经上了!它会在你的图上打一个不太能看出来的码,但凡有人把你的图喂给ai,你的图就能摧毁他整个同类词的ai模组,但是不保护被学习的风格
旧款的glaze可以保护,建议1+1配合使用
简介和下载在
nightshade.cs.uchicago.edu/
glaze.cs.uchicago.edu/

Last toot I said I'm going to be employed. It's a quick decision, both to me and to the company. It's a fairly small company, around 30 people including the programmers and administrators. And it's not a high salary job (with the current FX rate, it's around 1k USD pre-tax), but the environment is very people-friendly, not like big companies where everyone is bonded by the rules. You need to go home and handle something? Sure, bring your laptop and they'll count you as working from home. If you really can't handle both, you can just ask and normally you get several days off.

The most important factor to make me decide to work there is no frequent overtime working. There will be overtime working, but most of them are predictable and you will be informed beforehand. And you can choose if you want to get money compensation or save it as an extra holiday and use it later. I don't know about other areas, but in China, man, this is the best you can ask for.

(Context: the average weekly working hours are 49 hours. Source: statista.com/statistics/139155 )

The person who interviewed me is one of the bosses charges the tech things. I can tell he knows programming since we can understand what we're talking: blockchain, LLM, JVM, etc. It's a delightful interview. But that day is Friday and it's almost 5 pm (4:30). So we agree to meet on Monday. I'll show up in the morning and they do the rest, contract, etc.

I hope everything goes well. And thanks to you, my friends, for bearing my nonsense in the past year and congrate me on my (possiblely) new job.

【契诃夫缺钱文学】
1、天气好极了,钱几乎没有
2、我很伤心,因为没有钱了,我像狼一样叫起来
3、春天十分美好,然而没有钱,真是倒霉
4、我希望来年春天我会有一大笔钱,我是根据迷信来判断的,没有钱就是快有钱了
【他赚的钱都用来免费给人看病、救人、建学校等】
5、除了这种流行病以外,我还在等待另一种流行病,这种病一定会传布到我的庄园里来的,那就是缺钱
6、我囊空如洗、连出门的路费也没有了
7、我又生病,又心境忧郁,简直不像话。钢笔从我的手里掉下去,我根本没法写作,我预料最近的将来会破产
8、我寂寞,我气恼,钱去的太快,我要破产了,我要从烟囱里飞出去
9、我疲乏,非常爱生气。没有钱,讲到挣钱,我既没有功夫,也没有情绪
10、钱老是没有,而且不会很快就有,真要命
11、钱的数目不大,但毕竟是钱,所以不该放弃
12、我没有钱用,但又懒得去挣钱。请您给我寄一些钱来吧!我决不食言,我只懒到5月份,从6月1日起我就坐下来写作
13、钞票在口袋里像雪糕一样地融化
14、我认为我休息一下是合法的
15、别人想发疯的时候,别搅合他们

昨天18点:开始跑任务,明早就能看到结果了😇
今天上午SSH上去:
$ tmux att
no sessions
$ uptime
19:03:22 up 5:57
老老实实白天跑吧。工作伤人啊……

Got an urgent interview.

During lunch, the recruiter asked when I'm available for an interview. I'd prefer next week, but the recruiter said the leader won't be available, she suggested next Monday.

Then she told me if I could go there this afternoon.

At now I'm going to work at that company next Monday.

That's totally unexpected. In 4 or 5 hours and now I'm going to be employed. Wow

ʻĪao Valley State Monument 

昨天大风,本来40分钟的飞机2点半出发5点多才到Maui。一路冒着大雨开到酒店天都黑了。今早起来还是阴天狂风不能下水,现做功课补了一上午远夏和咪柴游记看能去哪里玩。
ʻĪao Valley State Monument去年刚维修完,跟其他state park一样parking 10元门票一人5元。这个地方是当年king kamehameha征服maui岛时打仗的地方。特点是P1的ʻĪao needle,火山岩被侵蚀而成,看起来毛茸茸的好想摸摸哦。由于昨天刚下过大雨P4的山上挂着两条瀑布,冰岛既视感!
trail都很短很好走,向下的trail可以走到溪边。刚下过雨河水汹涌,能看到本身长在河中的高草植物都被flash flood冲倒了,所以下雨还是要注意安全。水边还有一棵巨大的不知道什么树,P3的树根都已经裸露在外,巨大的岩石卡在上面很神奇,感觉未来总有一天水土流失后这棵树会倒掉。

#小西游记 #Maui #夏威夷

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