@Tilopa@convo.casa @bonifartius
Saying this, there is evidence that children who are abused, can go on to abuse others as they consider that 'normal' behaviour. So they may exhibit that behaviour in school for example. This is, how staff in schools or other professionals can pick on the signs of abuse and act to safeguard the child further.
If that child is not protected and taken away from that environment, the abuse carries on and that child grows up to potentially abuse others, cycle repeats and is complete.
This can be any sort of abuse, neglect, sexual anuse, physical or psycological abuse being the main forms of abuse.
One reason it is essential to be vigilent and report concerns, but just as important for those above you to act accordingly, What we saw in the UK in one scandle, was abuse by 'asian' men, being reported by girls, who are told they are lying, it is their fault OR no one wants to take action as they are terrified of being branded racist, so the abuse carried on.
So people need to be able to report without fear of repurcusions.
As I commented on the case of the child pulverising the other child, adults don't want to get involved as they are terrified of being accused of assault or accused generally of abuse.
Even corporal punishment has some limitations, but we have gone so far the way of don't breath on someone, we are in the situation just like with Putin, Trump and other bullies they act with impunity as no one can say NO.
of course some of that then ends up in the US with a traumatised person walking in to a school with a gun and starting to kill people, then they kill themselves, it seems when they look in to afew of these cases, they were bullied relentlessly, so you can understand why they cracked, in which case we need to ask, what were all the adults around those young people DOING.