When people ask if you drink coffee, that's actually an invitation to go out? Does everyone already know this? Why didn't anyone tell me???
@Kovaelin yeah. it's like, why would someone care if you just happened to like coffee? unless they've got coffee bean samples, they're minded to ask you out for coffee (or some similarly low stakes opportunity to chat which you could suggest if you don't do coffee or tea)
@Kovaelin 😆 I've had similar experiences. In my case it was because I just didn't understand that people could be interested in me for my society and good humor. it's not *that* obvious if you're biased similarly, and it's hard to get over that.