Oh no I am falling down a black hole.....
@FailForward it will only render as we see it on QOTO on a few instances, it uses the miskey format for quotes so misskey instances will see it rendered properly and a few other instances.
@Matt should still see it as a link attached to the post though so it will still "work" for him in a sense.
Well facebook accomplishes that by getting everyone on facebook... so we can do the same, just get everyone to use QOTO :)
You are certainly welcome to use all the QOTO resources to that end, our nextcloud may also be helpful.