@freemo My wife was recently diagnosed...which I think explains a lot about me, our relationship, and my childhood lmao
@johnabs I cant speak to your wife and in no way claiming her diagnosis isnt real. But I am of the opinion that 99% of high functioning autism doesnt exist. These are just the few mentally healthy people out of the society who dont play into the toxic social bullshit of everyone else.. People considered "autistic" in america would be popular kids in any social circle in europe.
Thats close to it.
In america people create social drama from thin air. So they always expect you to make a ton of social clues to ensure you convey your intent as a friendly person and even then they will find some reason to imply you meant something different from what you said.
So people who just dont engage with that and dont little social cues everywhere and just expect to be taken at face value for what they say are often seen as autistic.