I'm trying to concentrate on my #work, but I keep getting pulled away by #doomscrolling. There's even more doom to scroll these days than usual, it seems.
Much of what I'm scrolling is discussions in #science-focused spaces, started and (somewhat) moderated by people who want thoughtful and informed discussion. Often they stay that way for quite a while. But the loons always find them, and descend in hordes. Like locusts without the charisma.
#Antivax is the most common, but #creationism and #climate change denial always put in a good showing. More recent crankeries like the explosion of flat-Earthers: please don't try to tell me they're all "just trolling." Others too numerous to list.
There are the hardcore #ideologues who don't try to mask it, and the "just asking questions" crowd who are just as much true believers, minus the honesty. And another circle beyond that, people who genuinely don't know enough to know what questions to ask. Some of them might still be reachable—
—if you have the time and patience. Which I no longer do.
I did, you know, for much of my life. I'd give clear explanations, "as simple as possible but no simpler," and I've been told I was pretty good at it. Hell, I *enjoyed* doing it, and maybe still would. Answer questions. Smooth out sticking points. Engage with anyone, any time, anywhere.
I just can't anymore. And I hate that.
More and more of the people who look like they might want to learn, who can at least be given what they need to know to *start* asking the right questions, are really clever ideologues. Or they're just happy in their #ignorance. It's a trap either way.
Like I've said before: nearly everyone is ignorant about nearly everything. The sum of human #knowledge is too vast for anyone to learn more than a sliver of it in a lifetime. This is nobody's fault.
Science is fractally complicated. Each field is complicated, and each subfield is equally complicated, and each sub-sub-field ... you get the idea. No matter how much you know, you still have just as much to learn as you did at the start.
Maybe everything worth knowing is like this. Again, nobody is to blame.
But it is your fault, very much so, if you don't know anything about the subject at hand—and insist on spouting off anyway. If you react to those who know more with anger or mockery or baffled rage. If your deliberate, willful ignorance gets you and people around you killed.
So you know what? It's not my fault if I can no longer make myself care.
I'll keep on answering questions, and asking them too—and *listening* to both the questions and the answers. That's in my blood. I know there are many, many people in the world who do want to know more than they do now, and if you're still reading this, there's a fair chance you're one of them.
Everyone else can go to hell. That's where they're headed anyway, a hell they make for themselves, and the only remaining reason to try to get through is that they'll drag the rest of us with them. When that effort fails, as at the moment it manifestly is ...
Back to work. That may still be one place I can do *something*.
@medigoth Another short version of that I just sent is: "You just haven't found the right way yet... to filter or find / use better people... and yes I put myself forward for that and you can even ignore the previous post and consider that for others with the IF condition / clauses I put in there if really you have tried with people as you mention further down original post). The way is to focus on the people that can reply / have heart / know their own problems and those of other but continue to cooperate if really is more mutual...
#Doomscrolling vs Not Replying on Fediverse (part of the same problem that feed Trump etc)...
@medigoth No offense. I find comments like these from the first 2 paragraphs very valid but eventually cheapen as time goes on / self-defeating IF people don't reply to others towards actual friendship.
(regardless of what others like #Trump etc are doing... #friendship / open to small co-operations).
Because the other half of more which feeds Trump etc is people not able to do friendships / communication at all and excuses like "busy" or "don't trust over the internet" or "I don't know you" all covers for the lack of #friendships and trying. People lost it basically - the practice simply to spiral out to almost as many people as possible or just 1 a week. Yeah sure do keep eye on them too and not just trust anyone but not near-0 trust which I believe is the case now and compounds / secures the self-prison.
(NOTE: This might not be you especially if I haven't commented already on your quite-good stuff... or if I haven't directly messaged which I probably have since I'm following you and do that with *every single person*).
So anyway keep in mind it's mostly 1-way here on #Fediverse (from all my measured real-life tests, and 0-reply posts) to simply talk to advance some of the non-doom focused stuff.)
So you have the choice now with the more personal do-whatever-you-can-with-your-own-stuff-BUT-WITH-OTHERS here and now...
Otherwise #doomscrolling it is unless people actually accept imperfection in people and
WORK TOGETHER
on something / almost anything >60% mutual or even random to be honest as long as someone cared enough to reply to you...
(bookmark this- you'll need it unless you can keep 2-way communication going next time you feel like writing the 1st paragraph... communication).
I also DON'T look less at people stuff now if they can't communicate and add notes on their account if I've tried and waht I said.
People really need to get off their list of #excuses and have #time to write x10 posts about Trump/Musk/Zuckerberg/Bezos/etc or own long posts complaining, but not enough for a paragraph back to a real person or even fan and what they can see from their posts in others...
Said with peace in mind
but battling with humanity's mindwork first...
#FreeSchool