@847swingers Hi, I'm glad you picked the fediverse as a new home. I am the Founder of QOTO.org
QOTO however is a place for STEM professionals and not well suited for sexual connections or swinging. Though if you happen to be a STEM professional who is here to be around other STEM professionals and just happen to be a swinger you would still be welcome.
I suspect, however, that STEM is not what brought you here in any sense. If I am correct in that then I can say you found the wrong place. There are other instances in the fediverse devoted to nudity, sexwork, swingers, and similar lifestyles. I suspect you will have much more success at one of these instances. Check out switter for example.
@847swingers
maybe https://sinblr.com/about ?
@847swingers Hello and welcome to Qoto.
I would suggest you read our Terms of Conduct and rules pages, as there are some requirements for Adult themed posts. This is primarily a STEM instance, but if you abide by the policies on the page, it can be possible to use it for your personal interests.
See it here: https://qoto.org/about/more
Thank you!