@Genie@spinster.xyz @alex @freemo @Surasanji Just as a clarification, "A federated instance in the fediverse" may not be what you think you were promised.

What you are describing is very possible. It just isn't what you have/are a part of.

If spinster de-federeates from other instances, and other instances de-federate away from spinster. Then you will have a closed space for only the people who are on spinster.

I hope spinster doesn't get silenced from us, but if they do it is not just about one petty person getting hurt feelings. But I am not looking for a fight on this so if you disagree that's okay too.

Anyway, be well, and I hope you find what you are looking for.