Unit @Unit@qoto.org

https://youtu.be/fOCWBhuDdDo?si=cWnoeSAUIIy85TcY

Happy to see a new perspective here thats also up to date. Feels like I’ve only recently been interested in listening to the perspectives of other world leaders.

And last but not least I am never, EVER using a dating app again.

Like seriously I understand getting upset with me or feeling unsafe around me. I’m a pretty weird guy. but calling the fucking cops? Even after I offered to pay for your uber home? What the fuck?

If thats the low roll, I’m never touching a dating app again.

Preferably never asking a woman that I don’t already know out again either.

Love and sex are really cool but that was NOT worth it in the slightest!

Second, I’ve lost all trust in my ability to evaluate people.

My now ex-gf got mad at me for things I agree I needed to work on personally but I’m realizing even if it was something I needed to work on, the way she presented the issues were not really acceptable from a partner.

I’m probably not cut out for dating or atleast I need to keep people at a further distance for a longer period of time and spend more time observing them instead of immediately assuming they are right

I’ve been spending time self reflecting on this, how my relationship fell apart, and how it has impacted me. Here’s what I’ve taken away.

First thing is on incel and virgin as a derogatory terms. I thought I understood why this was funny and that I deserved to be made fun of, but now that I’m in on the joke I don’t see why these get a pass in the mainstream compared to other non-politically correct words. I might change my mind later but right now it just seems unfair imo.

Never mind she fucking called the cops on me!