Well, lets see if they care anymore if I expose this shit on twitter. If you have an account there feel free to show some support:
@admitsWrongIfProven Added us to joinfediverse at that link... not sure how to get on the other list.
@admitsWrongIfProven It wouldnt be quite as appropriate for me as the server owner to do it. I do encourage you to do it, but only if you feel compelled to.
We have about 20K users so at least 4x over that limit.
@freemo I won't get around to it today, but i'll look into it in the next days.
@freemo fediverse.party says:
Following instances skipped: number of users > 5.000
I don't know how many users we have.
Another possibility would be posting on the subreddit, i see at least one server promotion, so it seems it is allowed. I am a bit unsure if i should make an account and post, since i do not know qoto that well as a relatively new user.