#橙雨伞 微博:
【李靓蕾所说的“gaslighting”是什么?】
电影《煤气灯下》,讲了这样的一个故事:继承了姑妈大笔遗产的独立少女宝拉与男子安东结了婚,并搬回了姑妈被杀死的伦敦旧居。
搬家后,安东会当着别人辱骂宝拉;家里的物品会“丢失”,却在宝拉的房间出现;宝拉常常听见阁楼里有脚步声、看见煤气灯忽明忽暗,但是安东却认定这是幻觉。
然后,安东声称宝拉“精神不稳定”,从而切断她与其他人的联系。
后来真相大白,原来宝拉的姑妈是安东杀死的,安东和宝拉结婚也是为了窃取财物,之前的种种打压与怪事,都是用来控制宝拉的手段。
这种控制手段被称为“煤气灯操控法”(gaslighting),指的是操控者在被操控者身上播下怀疑的种子,让TA们质疑自己。操控者通过否定、误导、谎言等手段,改变受害者本来有的信念。 #煤气灯效应
Not a fresh news to me, but I didn't know they took schools over even "without providing compensation", well done...
Private school owners forced to hand institutions over to Chinese state - https://www.ft.com/content/56a18391-2fbc-4d33-aae8-591cf233b6a7?shareType=nongift via @FT
Back to the Future with RSS
https://ncase.me/rss/
the internet has developed from a jungle to mega-cities, but not everyone would love to see this
The Day the Good Internet Died - The Ringer
https://www.theringer.com/2021/7/21/22586870/google-reader-ode-end-of-the-good-internet?utm_source=pocket&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=pockethits
Moments ago, my twitter account was locked because of a very casual reply to a controversial post. However, that's my guess. Who knows the real reason? They didn't tell me anything.
Ironically, that reminds me of Chinese social websites, who always overlook users' right to know, right to appeal and right to be a living human (rather than a piece of digital asset). Moreover, twitter and platforms like instagram and facebook are becoming more and more isolated and closed. Remember the times when we can browse tweets freely inside IE, even no need to be logged in? They all are degenerating towards an Orwellian end👍
We are happy to announce a new QOTO service, our brand new matrix server!
Registration is open to everyone.
To either login or register a new account use any compatible Matrix/Riot client (like https://app.element.io/ ). When doing so you will have to set the home server to “matrix.qoto.org” (it is usually set to matrix.org). However keep in mind once logged in your username will be @user:qoto.org, as the matrix.* prefix is dropped. Similarly any rooms you create will be #room:qoto.org.
The best part is this service is decentralized and federated so you can join any matrix room on any other server. Even cooler you can join rooms on servers that arent federated at all like IRC or gitter.im. So you really can connect to almost any chat server out there all from one identity and server.
NOTE: We will also be bringing up a client, likely the same client run at app.element.io, for the added security. It wont change anything and you can switch clients once we have that up if you want. You can also download the client and use it as a desktop app.
bonbing.fr