I find it interesting what happens when somebody blocks you on fediverse.

  1. I send something
  2. Somebody calls it bs
  3. I point out it’s actually reality and try to engage in a conversation
  4. The person send a flurry of toots, calls me names and blocks me as I am still reading them.

And then fun starts.

  1. I see the person’s replies disappear, but my client still shows some of them in a chaotic order
  2. I try to reply, but my toots are orphans
  3. The person follows me, so I think they still engage
  4. I try to speak to him/her, to no avail
  5. My client shows I cannot follow them, while they follow me
  6. On their local timeline, the whole conversation is still intact, toots which seem deleted to me are still there
  7. After a while I realise the person probably blocked me without me understanding why that happened and I am speaking into a black hole.

I very well understand why blocking is there and why the sender had no way to know what’s going on. I would still prefer the person at least telling me they block me so that I know what’s going on.

Either way I think it’s very impolite do block people in as civilised conversation, just because they disagree without finishing it. That we are in a digital world does not mean we shall behave like jerks. Nobody is forcing that person to read my stuff and I certainly am not asking anybody to respond to whatever I have in mind. I learn something every day. Just today I learned something about strange behaviours of others.

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