raining_night(RN) @raining_night@qoto.org

@raining_night
When we're younger everything is shiny and new, and we have to try stuff out. Other kids our age are also trying stuff out, so we strike up relationships with them.
As we get older, (as in older than 30's) we become much less interested in trying out new things, so meet fewer people.

e.g. Wife knows someone at work whose husband plays at an open mic almost every wed. night. "You and your husband should come. He can bring his guitar and participate too." We did, and I did. I had a good time, went back several times. Cataracts make driving at night difficult, so as winter came on, and it got darker earlier and earlier, and the temperatures got colder and colder, I found it harder to work up the ambition to go out.
The applause is nice, but sharing the embodiment of the song is primary. Making new friends isn't even a part of the reason I'm there. Sure, I make conversation here and there, but not with any intent to form new relationships. If that's also true for most others there, it's little wonder new friendships don't get formed.

"It's difficult to make friends..."
Maybe because we're not even really trying? Maybe friendships are "worth it" when we're younger, but as we get older, they seem more trouble than they're worth?

@_lunawinters @raining_night
Ever trying cycling? any bike, just riding if you have a safe place to do it.

Great exercise, relaxing. My favourite.

@Vishsai @raining_night

That's my experience too. People get busier, you meet them in work situations only, it's acquaintances mostly, and even those we lose as we move on, change places or jobs, etc.

@raining_night age just a number, you can still try

@raining_night I get you brother. Think as we grow older we more selective on what bullshit we can and can't handle. Though if there is something else am all ears.

@raining_night relatable af🖐️

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We do get donations and that's a BIG help! But still I need to pay much from my own pocket so keep that in mind. We are not a company, we are not Twitter, we drive on #love! ❤️

A British Ad which very well defines what is happening in India.

https://youtu.be/2jCfHAW9izw

Is there even a single thing happening in India right now that I can genuinely feel proud of?

I am struggling here.

#cat #memes