RT: @garrulous_abyss@union.place
毕竟中国大陆这环境,“正常人”的标准本身就是十分苛刻的。小时候不好好认真学习,是不正常。长大后不拼命工作,不结婚生子,是不正常。。。
中国没有ASD,只有“性格古怪没情商”; 中国没有ADHD,只有“这孩子不听话,上课不专心”;中国没有抑郁症,只有“吃饱了撑的,就是懒”。
🐦📎: https://vxtwitter.com/garrulous_abyss/status/1688716966096175104
#DailyBloggingChallenge (18/25)
This is where you can find the #RSS for an account on #mastodon (and probably the #fediverse):
```
https://<instance>/@<username>.rss
```
For my account it would be `https://qoto.org/@barefootstache.rss`
And for hashtags it's
```
https://<instance>/tags/<hashtag>.rss
```
For the #DailyBloggingChallenge it's `https://qoto.org/tags/DailyBloggingChallenge.rss`
One thing to keep in mind for choosing an `<instance>` for the hashtags, one should choose one that does not shadow ban keywords. In general, qoto.org is a good choice.
#Fdroid has a wide selection of apps to use as an RSS reader: https://search.f-droid.org/?q=rss+&lang=en
My preference is #Feeder (https://gitlab.com/spacecowboy/Feeder). Similar apps exist for various operating systems and as browser extensions.
I shutdown my server when under DDoS attack.
@freemo True. Today I tried to implement some immutable status. Once I want to update the value, or I want to use it as a counter, then I must use some new variable and then reassemble the status object.
Mutable status is fine but then I need something like volatile or lock to ensure multithread safety...
This toot is sent using Vivaldi (Chrome) running on Windows 10. So, yes, I'm using big companies' products. But I would argue that using products from big companies doesn't conflict with the idea of "don't trust them".
我根本不懂老中人为什么这么喜欢用犯错这件事羞辱/惩罚ta人,比如上课答不出问题,答不出就答不出呗,为什么答不出就要被羞辱你没有好好学习呢?如果我随时都知道答案那我还上什么学呢?(尤其是喜欢答不出问题就罚站,到底是为什么?我出国后才知道外国学生是可以挺直胸膛说“i dont know”的,我第一次知道超级吃惊,因为我甚至在大学时被古汉语老师罚站过)还有一点就是把问题强调的特别严重给人压力和焦虑,出现问题你指出来然后改正不就得了?为什么这么喜欢用一些威胁似的语句来pua别人啊?比如你工作上犯的错,没有到最后不可挽回的那一步,那别人的查出来了你跟对方认真说一下就行了,整的好像我要把整个公司都毁了似的这是干什么呢?这不就是没人喜欢工作,越来越多人拒绝承担责任的原因吗,惩罚和现实根本不匹配,心理疾病也是因此而起。
Conclusion: Big companies are asshole. Don't trust them.
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Have Mojang gone too far with the new user guidelines? (August 2023)
by Phoenix SC
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jkA8ZkpxjVE
Kinder, Küche, Kirche
这句德文的直接翻译是“孩子,厨房和教堂”,表示对女性的社会角色的期待。一般认为初次由威廉二世Kaiser Wilhelm II(1859-1941)提出。后又被第三帝国推广,虽然减少了对于“教堂”的推崇。
这句话与美国的“barefoot and pregnant”,英国维多利亚时期的“A woman's place is in the home”,或者日本明治时期的“良妻賢母”(应该不需要我翻译成汉语吧)含义大致近似。
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinder,%20K%C3%BCche,%20Kirche
vim 创始者 Bram Moolenaar 过世。
https://groups.google.com/g/vim_announce/c/tWahca9zkt4
#vim #RIP
Telegram 原文
After a good sleep, the headache is gone. (Yeah, now I remembered how to properly describe the pain in my head, LOL)
广西师范大学出版社“理想国”系列的编辑戴学林、总编何林夏,2016年之后陆续被抓被判刑。这个系列里的许多书也成为了绝版禁书。原本还能在淘宝或孔夫子网上买到,但2019年之后加强了对淘宝旧书/绝版书的管控,2021年大清洗孔夫子网。再往后,想买到实体禁书,就只能私下和朋友或熟悉的旧书店老板想办法了。中间还有一段时间管控突然变严(大概是2019-2020年),当时刚好用家人的账号在淘宝上买了一套古拉格群岛,没过多久那家淘宝店关门,家人被打电话问那套书买了做什么用、然后被要求“自觉一点把书扔了吧。”这还是因为,买书的时候留了个心眼,把地址写成了附近政府大楼底下的蜜蜂箱。我是爱买二手书的人,在孔夫子网买书差不多十年,收藏的很多老店铺,也在2021年大清洗之后陆续关闭。家里有一批抢救性采购来的绝版书,书上的印章显示它们出自各地图书馆。有国家图书馆、上海社科院图书馆、广西图书馆、广州图书馆、甚至是几个大学图书馆。当时觉得是工作人员监守自盗,现在想想,没准也是一种抢救性销售。
**I have a job now!**
I'm a Chinese shitizen, but I generally don't post in Chinese to avoid being suffering from other Chinese.
I'm physically a male, but I don't care how people think about my gender. I can be male, or female, or cat. But if you ask, I'd prefer to be referred to as male. Also, I support LGBT+ people, and I'm a copyleft. I don't think I'm too aggressive in arguing things, but sometimes I do. You should handle it with care.
I post about programming (most time is Java and Kotlin, unless I have a new love), and some random things I find interesting. I also post about my mental health, which is in a stable state of instability, thanks to my parents and Chinese society.
Anyway, if you want to follow me, I'm glad to see you. And, have a nice day.
Alt: @skyblond