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@Daojoan It's so nice how our human minds make us prepare for stuff that will never happen. Fills the time we would worry about real problems with worry about hypothetical problems!

@Plasmogen5_2 Schutz der Legitimierung weiterer Waffenlieferungen

@lilithvf1998 Sure, why not.
But i am intriegued that this establishes a canonical measure for the holy spirit, also it tells us it is something that can be inserted.

I conclude that the holy spirit is a really oversized contact lens.

@Autumn In March? Damn, they beat us to it!

@Horstibaer @PippiPunkstrumpf Faschoparadies? Meinst du die CDU?

@PippiPunkstrumpf @juergen @Easydor Kann nicht die Beiträge anderer löschen, aber immerhin den passenden Hashtag hinzufügen
#teamCringe

@PippiPunkstrumpf @elala Ja aber hallo, der G punkt sieberke scheint sehr emotional. Auch in Sachen Wahlrecht muss er also als Frau gelten ☝️ (und sägt mit seiner aussage am eigenen stamm bzw. stängelchen)

@PippiPunkstrumpf Du stählst dich für den nächsten Anruf?

@OpenComputeDesign Gladly, it was interesting talking to you.

@OpenComputeDesign Eh, someone depressed would probably not look at the forum for a while and then say something that is too much.
Being depressed is not the same as being pretty distraught. How would you feel if i said you were just pretty distraught?

Please do try to find someone competent to help. I've seen people with similar ways of thinking, and talking to me might feel nice (or not, depending on how feisty i feel) but i'm not acutally qualified.

That doesn't mean i won't talk to you, but don't see it as a substitute for therapy. I'm just some dude that likes to talk about something more than just the weather.

@OpenComputeDesign That's not driving someone to depression, way to overstate. That's just someone not wanting to help anymore, it happens.

@OpenComputeDesign Driven other people to depression? Are you talking about mental health professionals?

@OpenComputeDesign Do you think there might be aspects of this whole mess you don't want to look at and thus ignore / explain away?

@OpenComputeDesign How many chances for redemption someone gets is always the decision of the wronged person.

I don't even need to know what the problematic behaviour is, i don't get a say, and you don't get a say. It's for her to say.

@OpenComputeDesign I wonder if she despises your parents because of something they did to you?

@OpenComputeDesign Sounds like you can do a lot better if you manage to listen?

If she still wants contact and wants you to not feel bad, it seems reasonable boundaries (like her telling you if anything is too much) should be possible to achieve.

Can you maybe see how you might be more than just one thing at a time? The guy that messed up, but also the guy that now invests energy into doing better?

The way you explain, it seems like you are now all adults, but it started way early. Is that right? You might want to ask yourself for whatever age this problem started, could you have been fully responsible? Would you judge a stranger of that age in the same situation?

If your sister doesn't want you to beat yourself up and also despises your parents, it sounds extremely likely that there is more than just your personal responsibility going on.

@OpenComputeDesign I can see that not beating oneself up and concomitant acceptance of having done something wrong is not easy.

Are you getting professional help for your depression? Need to help yourself before you can protect others.

@OpenComputeDesign While it does seem to fit what i initially meant pretty well, i wonder about your parents role in this.
They seem a little overwhelmed with the situation, probably didn't help much? The "keep apart" instead of "talk things over" sounds bad.

"Eine pro Person ist eigentlich genug": Die Gemüsezwiebel in der zeitgenössischen Küche.

@OpenComputeDesign Is it still possible to ask about what you did wrong and learn from it? The willingness to do better is a good first step, and admitting wrong should help too.