@jeremiah @levisan is it possible that could eventually happen, or that some doctors overdiagnose? for sure. but overall i think the removal of stigma is helpful, and the direction is towards helping more people live their lives more fully. i was diagnosed with adhd ~15yr ago, and regret not taking it seriously then. around 5yr ago i started learning how adhd works and using targeted strategies to better deal with it, and that has improved my life immensely.
@jeremiah @levisan well it def has changed, in that asperger’s (and now adhd) are increasingly seen as part of the same “spectrum” of neurological conditions. and of course there’s the pop understanding of the conditions too which is often nonsense. but i don’t think it’s a conspiracy to try to medicalize everything. we’ve seen demedicalization of it too — seeing them as neurotypes that can exist without needing treatment rather than as just disorders
@levisan i have a bad habit of sorta explaining my jokes after i make them (or hear them). “yeah, we got it” my wife says. i’m not fully sure why i do it. it’s not because i think others aren’t smart enough to get it. i think i’m trying to confirm whether what i got out of it is what other people did too, since i seem to perceive and communicate things differently so often
@levisan oh that’s funny!
@levisan couldn’t figure out what that emoji was at first, hah... thanks, man
@RadicalAnthro strange, that link is giving me an error!
@freemo thanks 😘
@levisan this is the type of observation i find useful but that also makes me feel like maybe i am autistic because i find it useful
buried my friend and former bandmate michael nicholson on thursday. he had cancer back when we recorded the salvation navy, and was clear of it a decade ago. but it came back with a vengeance.
died last friday at hospice in brantford. left behind a wife and 9 year old child. brutal stuff.
here’s some old photos with both of us! (he’s in the red toque, hugging me from behind in the first one)
@RadicalAnthro what’s the significance of the watermelon?
@alan that’s pretty awful. i’ll have to inflict it on my kids next time we have croissants
@Sabex because she doesn’t want to disrespect their flag by walking across it?
@thebishopgame hey if this allowed us to spend our waking hours free to do what we like and yet flush with cash, pretty sure a lot of us would be signing up
@alex quantum computing fixes this
@levisan “alive”? ha. they could only show the credits for that one
@mike meanwhile, thankful for imdb parental guides
@mike yeah, we have prime and access to a friend’s disney+, but fairly rarely watch via those services either. most often i end up watching via free (as in pizza *and* speech) sites to avoid the rigmarole and ickiness. canceled netflix some time ago. tbh if this was supplied by the major streaming services, that could be the killer feature that would get me to come back
@mike well they don’t support disney or warner bros content “due to an agreement with the studios” so that makes sense. thought that wording seemed odd. boy, am i the only one who didn’t know about these guys? hah
former baby, future corpse