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Christ almighty is there a ton of porn and lunacy on this instance's federated timeline. This may have been a mistake.

@evaristus Federated timelines are usually improved by you muting the whole instance. There are only a gew instances that show porn so its easy to block it all in one go.

But generally we dont silence instances at the server level unless they engage in harassment.

@evaristus

You know how to mute a whole instance instead of just individuals right?

@cowanon

@evaristus

Go to the profile of a user from the server you wush to mute (click their username). Then press the three dots next to their profile. It should have an option saying "Hide everything from <server name>"

@cowanon

Maybe that's only on some instances and/or you need to be an admin, as I don't see that option from #FSE :2050: @freemo @evaristus

@cowanon @evaristus @freemo

It's easy, as freemo described. Present in all user profile dot menus. Screenshot here for one.

@cowanon @evaristus @freemo
that could be not from the server, but from the client software you are utilizing.

Mine is the default Mastodon web interface - you can get the same if you open the qoto.org in a browser in any device - mobile or desktop.

Try that, is my guess you are on mobile and client is not full featured.

I just have freespeechextremist.com in my desktop browser. I'm still pretty new to this fediverse/etc stuff and don't quite yet know how exactly it all works; that's my excuse and I'm sticking to it! :blob_laughing: @design_RG @evaristus @freemo

@cowanon
Well, you have the same software as I am using here right now. The home instance loaded into a browser for use. You should see the menu like I did.

BUT -- you need to Search for the @sinblr account in your own instance's Search box.

Notice on screenshot how I am using the search box, from my own instance, qoto.org, and lookign for "@sinblr" (without quotes.

If you do it from here, you have the options, all of them, Follow, mute, block, block whole instance.

@evaristus @freemo

Looks like I'd have to make a brand new account on qoto.org to get such options. Drat. But thank you for the help! :blobrainbow: @design_RG @evaristus @freemo
How strange, this interface is all weird and stuff! Let's see if I can get used to it. Thanks a bunch! :rainbowdance: @TheMadPirate @design_RG @evaristus @freemo
@cowanon @design_RG @evaristus @freemo it's a tweetdeck like interface.
Press on the looking glass icon, search for @ sinblr, press the three dots near the profile name, select "hide everything from this instance".

@TheMadPirate @cowanon

As Mad Pirate pointed out, if you opened the freespeech.com/web page, you should have the full Mastodon web interface, and similar to what we have here at Qoto.

Keep plowing, friend, we are all learning, everyday.

I just started here a month ago. And loving every minute. Cheers!

@evaristus @freemo

Aaaand there goes a few of the domains that I never want to see anything from again! Going to take some getting used to this. Thanks again, you guys!
@TheMadPirate @design_RG @evaristus @freemo

@cowanon @TheMadPirate @evaristus @freemo

You are welcome!

And -- if you decide to open another account in a new instance, or move your account totally, you can easily Export the full list of the Blocked Domains to a .csv file.

That file can be imported, very easily, at the new place, and all the Blocks are in place there too.

Pretty neat, in fact. Used it myself, works as advertised.

In other news, I had to switch my UI to Mobile mode because the monitor I use fedi on is vertical like the one on the left in this photo. :blobtea: (Dual monitors are fun if overwhelming at times.)​ @design_RG @TheMadPirate @evaristus @freemo
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@cowanon

That vertical monitor is a dream!!

Vertical space is so limited in the wide screen laptops and desktop monitors we are forced to purchase for the last few years.

That one will display so much more information. Lovely. 👍

@TheMadPirate @evaristus @freemo

@freemo @evaristus Well this is interesting. I thought admins usually block instances that break their rules...and IIRC porn isn't welcome here...

@realcaseyrollins

Sort of. Most instances will have different rules for what they allow federation with vs what they allow locally.

We do not have a no-nudity rule, strictly speaking, but we do require it to be CW'ed

Our rules are elaborated on in our about page. But we federate with every instance that protects a users right to disengage (a rather strict definition of harassment). Locally we are more strict though.

I see no reason we should be dictating who our users want to follow or interact with though from other servers.

@evaristus

@freemo @realcaseyrollins

> I see no reason we should be dictating who our users want to follow or interact with though from other servers

But we just discovered a reason here, right? Plenty of people didn't even know how to mute domains until this thread. So there's a technical onus to having people decide on their own which domains to mute.

By activate moderation of fediverse connections, you're relieving the onus on users to deal with objectional content on their own, each time they see it.

@evaristus

Thats pretty much the age old argument of security vs liberty... But worse yet, it isnt really security as just laziness. Less work for the user at the sacrifice of liberty (preventing them from hearing objectionable material if they wish to).

It comes down to, are you willing to have someone dictate to you what is or is not objectionable just to save a few minutes of work?

@realcaseyrollins

@freemo @realcaseyrollins

But that's what moderation is. Are you suggesting this instance is unmoderated?

@evaristus

I am suggestion the instance is minimally moderated in only the most essential ways.

That means for federation purposes we garuntee ones right to disengage.

For the local instance we guarantee people will interact with each other reasonably respectfully.

Obviously the level of moderation we hold for our local users is somewhat stricter than what we impose on entire instances.

Of course everything is open for discussion. If you think this is a bad policy I suggest you open a topic in the moderation section of ur discourse instance and myself, other moderators, and users would be happy to discuss it and consider changing our current policy.

@realcaseyrollins

@freemo @realcaseyrollins Wouldn't presume to tell you how to moderate things. If you think you've struck a good balance, then that's great!

I just wanted to give you an impression on the ground, as a new user joining the instance. When I see a federated timeline filled with disinformation and lolicon, my first thought isn't, "wow, this instance must have a minimal moderation policy", it's "wow, no one is looking at what the timeline is showing our users, and new users are getting shown lolicon and disinformation."

I'm just happy to have reasonable discussions Online!

@evaristus

I understand, and I very much appreciate you sharing your perspective.

I wonder, did you read our about page before joining. The fact that we are moderated in this way is something we are rather explicit about.

As for if we struck a good balance or not, well I guess thats not for me to decide. Ultimately if the users are unhappy about something I'd want to hear it. Thats why I suggest opening a discourse topic if it is important to you.

@realcaseyrollins

@freemo
Thank you for the tag, the notification brought me back.

I am glad Evaristus posted the original message yesterday -- specially since it allowed a discussion and clarifications that involved users not only from Qoto, but from other instances as well.

I posted information that I discovered myself, and I think allows any user to control their exposure to unwanted instances and content.

I plan to create more permanent Forum posts in our Discourse forum -- there it can have a permanente URL, I can use enhanced text formatting like Bold, italics, and refer to it when needed.

Information posted simply in the mastodon feeds will quickly disappear, otherwise.

I am VERY grateful for our instance here having Full Text Search, which I use frequently to dig up my own posts to refer to new users.

Regarding the editorial choice of blocking content from porn or other instances :

I think the Laissez Faire (let it be in free translation) attitude is a good one. Followed by action and re-evaluation in case of any problems or complaints.

It's like a large news agent in the Federated feed. I do object to some I see flying by, or even what is shown right at the front door on some Pleroma instances.

But I have the choice to stay away from these, and reduce Clutter, porn, even possible hate speech by blocking whole instances that I, as a user, decide are not at all productive for me.

I see this as a combination of light moderation and helping the users learn about the content control power they do have; and are free to use at their discretion.

Sorry for the long post, friends.

@evaristus @realcaseyrollins @arteteco @mngrif @Surasanji

@freemo @realcaseyrollins @design_RG @mngrif @Surasanji

I'm a free speech lover and I like this place to be a platform for our users to get in touch with as much as they want of the fediverse, as long as there is no **active** harassment of any of us.

The rest is up to the users and the clients, they have a lot of power in carving their own informational niche, and that one of the big reasons why AP exists in the first place.
I understand that people may not be familiar with the technology, which has never had this scale of usage, but if you want freedom and independence is it too much to ask that you just search "mastodon how to silence instance", or whatever you may need?

We as mod are also always here to answer doubts and help our users to get the best out of this place, but no, I personally would never take the arrogant decision of what is good or bad for others to be exposed to.

Please, @evaristus , if we want to talk about it in a serious way could you please open a topic on discourse? We encourage this kind of discussion and it would be easier for anyone to follow.

@arteteco @freemo @realcaseyrollins @mngrif @Surasanji @evaristus

We even have a Mastodon Category now, special place for all discussions regarding Qoto's mastodon instance.

Direct Link: discourse.qoto.org/c/QOTO/mast

Open to reading by anyone. Replying or posting a new topic, you can register there as a user (I would suggest with the same name as in Mastodon) here :

discourse.qoto.org/login

@arteteco
What is your definition of harassment? Years ago I've seen people on Twitter and Tumblr stating that disagreeing with someone is harassment, even if it's only one tweet or reblog.
@freemo @realcaseyrollins @design_RG @mngrif @Surasanji @evaristus

@xyfdi
The definition QOTO uses for harassment is rather strict. It means anyone who does not respect a users right to disengage.

If someone says go away, then go away, thats all.

@arteteco @realcaseyrollins @design_RG @mngrif @Surasanji @evaristus

@xyfdi

Sort of.. block button isnt always sufficient for several reasons. For example users may create multiple accounts to circumvent it, or if a user continues to tag someone they may cause multiple users from their instance to gang up on someone who had asked to disengage. Moderators cant block at all to ensure they can effectively admin, etc.

@arteteco @realcaseyrollins @design_RG @mngrif @Surasanji @evaristus

@freemo If I understand correctly, you're saying that QOTO has a policy or position on the subject of harassment. Where can I read this?

It appears that if someone -- anyone -- feels he or she is being harassed, it is essential that the complaint is made clear to the the so-called harasser, isn't it? If this simple step is missing, then there's a big logic gap, isn't there? Where can I read this?

The only time I've been confronted with a false claim of harassment is HERE in QOTO.

The only time I've been forced to endure the consequences of that false accusation of harassment is HERE in QOTO.

So this word matters to me.

IS THIS AN AXIOM? No question addressed to a Mastodon administrator can be harassment.

QUESTION? If a Mastodon administrator claims to be harassed, but there is NO written evidence that the so-called harasser was ever informed, then what has really happened?

QUESTION? In response to a question presented to a QOTO moderator, what would be a most appropriate descriptive term for a moderator's responsive complaint of harassment?
• responding to tone?
• ad hominem?
• name-calling? -- see image below, Graham's hierarchy of disagreement; and see"How to Disagree" paulgraham.com/disagree.html
HINT: The response I'm looking for is that this isn't going to happen in QOTO.
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@chikara When were you confronted with a claim of harassment from a QOTO moderator? When were you forced to endure the consequences of that?

I a, the head administrator here and I dont know of any incident where you were said to be engaging in harassment.

Whats the problem?

@arteteco @freemo @realcaseyrollins @design_RG @mngrif @Surasanji @evaristus

Arteteco used a red flag word -- harassment.🚩

My experience persuades me that the word "harassment" has no place in the vocabulary of a QOTO moderator. There are other words and phrases which can be used to make the same point with better precision.

For administrators of QOTO, one of the costs of doing business is -- or should be -- the loss of this shorthand label because it's a loaded term.

BENEFIT OF DOUBT. It's easy to grasp how the default benefit of doubt in most other contexts lies -- or should lie -- with the person who feels somehow harassed or bullied.

But I'm troubled when the President of the United States claims to be harassed, bullied, abused, treated unfairly. There is an asymmetric power relationship which skews my assessment of complains we have heard regularly from Donald Trump.

And I'm troubled when any Mastodon administrator posts any variant of the verb "to harass."🚩

To me clear, this isn't about specific facts or perceived factoids. It's about tactics.

UMBRAGE. As a rhetorical tactic, Presidential candidate Trump often found cause to feel umbrage. -- see Webster definition: "a feeling of pique or resentment at some often fancied slight or insult."

As President, this Trumpian pattern continues.

Trump labels whatever annoys him as "harassment." And he repeats his complaint over and over -- dismissing, distracting and overwhelming all other topics.

The umbrage tactic works well for Trump in American politics. And I've observed that it works here in QOTO.

I'm troubled when any synonym of the noun "umbrage" is used as a tactic by any Mastodon administrator.🚩

BOTTOM LINE. I see no evidence of umbrage in the words of @arteteco; and I can't yet parse how this has happened in his prose.

I think his post is an example of what I want to see but I don't understand what I'm reading. This is a nuanced POV. I feel what I feel clearly, but I don't have words to explain my mpression that I'm seeing something good.
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QUESTION: Is QOTO flexible enough to embrace complaint and its opposite in the same post?
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@freemo @realcaseyrollins On Dec 8, you wrote sentences I don't understand: "But we federate with every instance that protects a users right to disengage (a rather strict definition of harassment). Locally we are more strict though."

Please explain again using different words.

@chikara

It means if someone from another instance is tagging you repeatidly and you ask them to leave you alone, and they dont, then the moderators at the instance will be asked to intervene, If they do not do so then the instance will be silenced.

When an instance is silenced you can only see a message from one of its users if you follow that user first.

@realcaseyrollins

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