FreeSchool=W🔁rk & Friendship! @freeschool@qoto.org

Do not feed #fires / fire$

= #Trump #Musk #Zuckerberg #Bezos #Banks #Bank #Debt $ #Business
#USPol #UKPol ETC

If you can see this post:
CHANGE your #habits... else spend your time like a moth to light (kill time )

There is opportunity for something else - #Friendship / #Project #Building online

(I.E.) #FireWatching vs. #Friendships with each other / #Building people up on #Fediverse

Limit your #shitshow watching.

Do not feed #fires / fire$

= #Trump #Musk #Zuckerberg #Bezos #Banks #Bank #Debt $ #Business
#USPol #UKPol ETC

If you can see this post:
CHANGE your #habits... else spend your time like a moth to light (kill time )

There is opportunity for something else - #Friendship / #Project #Building online

(I.E.) #FireWatching vs. #Friendships with each other / #Building people up on #Fediverse

Limit your #shitshow watching.

Q. TLDR What's missing from the #Fediverse... ?

A. Trust...

As any "user" will know using the less-evil "systems" (those less invasive with near-0 #algorithms like Mastodon) makes things hit and miss here on the Fediverse... and it's going to be the same unless we change our work habits to work *with* each by investing time into each other, otherwise else we get ruled and divide alone...

We can entertain things *a bit more* without $tate cashing us in for every single transaction we make - which is never helping anyone and actually takes away a lot of heat and real help overall.

(boost please for more work on this)

The rest is explained below but "Trust" and increasing #Friendships seems to be what's needed / can't be left as it is.

We can achieve #Trust with visible #feedback comments / #testimony / #ProofOfWork / #credibility online (like if I do something bad someone says and we argue it).

If you can think about trust and if it's true then we can work on increasing it with most of what we have other than conscious effort on our part or as the #people #project.

To increase trust for those that want and see the point to increase participation in life...
( ...online then offline, one big circle ).

My answer is to dedicate time to looking / talking / helping grow others more personally and that opens up much more and harmless from a distance until we meet more and more in person.

Really looking, and weaving ourselves together to form a bigger #mesh and #blanket of people... is for the way that we haven't seen regularly...

#Email, #IRC, #P2P, #XMPP, static websites, they are not enough because people themselves can't do more than 1 or 2 replies max and get 'weirded out' at some point over their own shadow (or actually anything they choose). Because they are not focused on #friendship.

Same about #Mastodon or any part of #Fediverse not making people more deliberately part of the value and frankly just entertainment and education-without-action mostly.

EXAMPLE
Even posting this seems to make a like-minded person like @rysiek@mstdn.social / @rysiek@hackers.town
blocks me and actually creates animosity. Crazy and unsaid - why are people so afraid or whatever if even #rysiek a hacker doesn't even have courtesy to say why? Probably but shows life is losing meaning as everything is becoming unsaid and people considered worthless..

We (they) never really build on things doing things like that with people - or even get past the basic #communication hurdles. Even if people do some good work there is a lot they are not doing well with *people* (people not just tech).

The better examples of communication are from geeks or other "extreme" fans of stuff, especially in forums previously, because their mutual interest in hardware / software wok for things as a kind of #relationship
but that is still not enough as far as people bridging the gap...

More #relativity and #relationship is needed and real care curation... for #intelligence spread or people just growing their #dreams however they want.

We need something more on the people front. Not just cold #system.

People actually helping others improve by looking closely at each other's stuff and making a kind of better #understanding to link them to other things or even set it up for them!!

Helpful #critique helps for something #measurably usable for that person (not just stone throwing or misunderstanding for months or blocking quickly).

And not just me me me but, here try this for you you you!) ...

Where's the dedicated relativity here on Fediverse aside from one-way posts?

United it seems in hating #Trump #Bezos #Zuckerberg (go ahead look at how many posts are there) but how mny actuall build on each other's stuff?

Hating doesn't really count highly for me or they are just fear-reaction posts... when we need to positively build *ALSO*... else really get left with nothing.

One-way machine type #Tech talk isn't the only thing to invest in but people.

Ok plenty of fixes and advice happen here for devices but on the internals of people and 'other' fixes inside to love themselves or share with others deeper still feels very machine based. So something more daily as written sign or a space, time to check in...

The tough stuff is yonder inside the person who could be getting confidence from others to play with further more others. #Evangelism if you will (as there are plenty of #Tech angels here,..

Emotions, Emotional intelligence - to hear what people are saying or could be in other words and help train nuances / variances etc..

To say "nice one!" and occasionally rant is still not the improvement I mean or only a small part of it = it's not dedicated / organised... and even weird for others if 1 person says it rather than a group (#psychology at play)

Even if this trust and relativity just means just me and you seeding here and to do something more on that on the regular - even as a test and handout dreams and objectives - that's a heck of a lot more...

1/ Up to us instead of waiting for others forever... the caliber of person, true isn't here, but who is ready to build trust maybe we could collect up?

People actually helping others improve in whatever way they can and find others that can, point toward appreciating them and their work - could there be anything better?

Nnow we're talking #social ..
#change

You can't even find any #free work here even if you post it...

People with websites question
why you even contacted them when they clearly say you can contact them - fucking crazy.

Mastodon people not writing in their profile they want pure peace so people keep trying them... Just write it in the post!

My attempts probably need 'legitimizing' as it's easy to blame myself - but surely all across Fediverse questions go unanswered and lost.

It should be good enough ANYONE can type, have hands or legs or just pure will to be able to be asked or given something to do - even create on top of existing things.
You can't even draw a picture and send it to someone.
A bit more dedicated plug-in-and-play into non-commercial work for the whole cause(s)...

Machines installed software CANNOT do the people work.

It's the same as email days here.. hit-and-miss lack-of-depth one-way communication
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Quick TLDR
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from a post I made asking my admin to work on improving / organising people more than just systems or AI expecting disorganised / disorderly people to do it better...

2/ #p2p fails when #users are not doing #peertopeer themselves (having a system is not enough)

3/ Real progress is the users and admin doing the people-to-people work daily rather than mass-storage #AWS McDonalds that doesn't encourage much more than the consumer style user storage and one-way writing more than empathy creating human harmony between our server or others...

Some of the above taken from my own notes:

https://qoto.org/@freeschool/113826459858752168

NEEDING TO SKILL-UP

To increase emotional intelligence is one thing since we all start out with and without many skills -directly we need to teach and make that part of our instances... else just have slow progress as 'users' (and abusers actually with Techies included in not doing minimal human practice which catches up with us all one day).

A few people can really do good work on each instance and build trust and have it visible / tangible / witnessed...

My life proves people actually can't do many things like reply (low and lacking any depth) and the truth why, is not clear, so that needs to come out.

Lack of depth is killing other people and planet (without being a drama king or queen about it)

We really have to help others FULL STOP.

(yes some won't need but really all this tech is less useful without more depth)

The training / nudging of people daily on how to communicate or give example by making audio podcasts together - just something... already in line with what they want to do, retro game revival or whatever - just not playing alone and wasting time. Linux PlayStation also needs merging with People's streams....and work for us all more often *personally*.

What is measurably the potential (if not problem) on the #Fediverse is things like teaching / showing that pseudonyms are still real people, the avatar doesn't always represent someone totally etc etc and what all these scary #acronyms mean.

Help others say aloud if they doubt and resolve it.

#Tech and #Techies can be cold non-emotional / overly logical when dealing with humans and obviously this is barely human.

While I UNDERSTAND human 'imperfection' is crap compared to 'perfect' machine and seems more desirable, it's not and not sustainable or ethical. All jobs and people need to inject more humanity into their 'jobs' (which are their to strip and extract very specific usually-unhealthy things for state as profit)

Updating and Writing copies of this now just to get some feedback. @freemo you will get a shorter version and hopefully benefit from revision so can skip this for now.

(everyone else feel free to comment and I'll keep it in mind and for later revisions today)...

QUESTION THAT HINT TO MY DIRECTION...

Just more "users" ? or Better social systems and #Friendships for the better way,.,?

Why do systems fail us ?

Why do people not improve / become #circular / #frustrated?

Short version answers as list and description below:

ANSWERS / THE LIST

1. Better human social systems = better human #friendships

2. Machine Systems themselves provide access to #1 but can't actually do it (at all) which is why social practise is needed

3. Machine Systems use coincidence more often (#hashtags, #algorithms, not much else) and expect users to know how to *actually* communicate beyond 'nice cat' comments and "nice car" pictures'. This is the void or potential that needs work.

4. People need to grow their brains and ability to moderate feelings internally (systems do not do that) to become better people - not just users which might 'at some point' get it and bumble along saying it's no fault of their own (which is true if others are not actively helping

5. Humanity needs human work, not just machines.

Better social systems = better #friendships

LONGER / EXPLAINED VERSION

DESCRIPTION / THE NEXT LEVEL AFTER VANILLA INSTALL

This might be seen as "The Next Level" model beyond just logging in to a communication #platform or #installing a server - because it actually involves the individuals doing more of the work between them, and then finding / accepting others in turn... like a kind of tuning or solving of own missing pieces. if you agree that as individuals we are like unique copies and similarities of each other while also sharing the same world so there is a lot in common (and rightly should be).

Rolling the dice more often with people creatively and otherwise but not just as weirdos contacting each other - a better system or way on top.

For those that really don't want of course that's fine, step aside, BUT also for those that want / need encouragement and have some direction and feelings in life... Let us all process it.

Nobody wants to be alone and I agree nobody wants to be a shoulder to cry on all the time - but it needs something in the middle and not just being increasingly alone (again my opinion but is measurable but modern capitalistic systems and profit-orientated ways that CUT OUT the humans parts and even replace it with machines).

What seems to work is actual non-demanding friendship or a sliding scale so that the doors are not totally closed or totally open either... and that middle opens up a whole new world (as friends local and afar gather and from mass turn into a better human unit).

100% the one-way social is not enough so something for everyone need to be there, not starting from extremes but not stopping after giving another messaging device... stepping towards the extreme as a nicer "program of bettering the brain more often" / re-education / enjoyment of our own selves- improving on many levels of contact all the while.

Any thoughts ?
THAT'S THE MAIN TEXT so reply to add your opinion please... the rest is just expanding on that

YOUTUBE AS EXAMPLE
We have youtube but we don't really have contact with those great people. So we can see ourselves in the same dynamic while not needing to be a big hollywood star and being more accessible.

Youtube is great (apart from being google etc) but the one-way video stuff gets to you after a while as you see you're just a user... but a more together youtube contact where people are able to see and acknowledge you on a more neutral / less advertising space like Mastodon is also essential beyond just watching. Even work with them! This is perhaps the ultimate goal for every artist or educator and while it's "God not all at once" you do need to link people in else just have empty gallery or just tourists who barely use your work or remember you.

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USERS JUST KILLING TIME WITHOUT PARENTS / TEACHERS / EDUCATORS / ETC

So to make sure as 'users' were are not just killing time (from nothing else to do) we seem to need more relativity with others.
Yes some / all of us can use it to kill time nicely but often it's from nothing else to do (which can be bad)

It's like relying on tech while people stay the same less-skilled levels and less-confident online to actually build trust or measures things better.
Essentially need teaching and regular related examples.

Not investing in people themselves (and more tech) basically means we need a better balance between us than just being given a social messaging system ... or it's the natural next level after we have #Mastodon etc

Encouraging closer social relativity... Growing people essentially (not expecting any outside system to do it but us ourselves).

Improving human relationship seems to be the #1 solution to many things which externally / outside are more conditional and as ultimatums to connecting so not quite able to be honest (it's #money or #conditions first). To make sure we are not just "users" of any system... we need to see and practise more ourselves #neutrally / #expressively.

Talking together more often might not be for everyone BUT as system makers it's not only about giving people a system and leaving them to and expecting less #cordinated stuff to work (for those that want / can see others doing it and benefits).

It's like giving a child a new phone and expecting them to use it properly. Adults are still fairly new to online and technology even in the basic text sense we've had for a while.

If 'systems' by themselves only help interact and don't solve actually interacting past one-way messages then everything people can do online or offline can fail to connect properly if actually they don't practise making friends more often or going beyond just monetary exchange (needing to have a job and #friends / #colleagues lost after #jobs

GOALS (without sounding to inhuman about this independent #project)

responsibility for each of us to increase user-to-user interaction on networks
match-making ourselves in that sense
encouraging closer social relativity... growing people essentially (not just code, machines, more systems without our own invested work / only mainstreams stuff to share with others)

#Friendship solves it all / is the main difference in life...

We need more than just modern Capitalism and money in between us, right?

Make #friends to use our real selves.... not just friend$ / colleague$!

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System of Friendship
by #FreeSchool
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Better Humans = #Communication & Interaction between people.

Your friends are not perfect but you live with them, even help them.

#Friendship more easily solves and accepts imperfection of which all humans are imperfect <--- very important

No need to #penalise each other so much for what is #natural.. or #compartmentalise it as wrong or right / #binary, but continuously show the work in progress and grow each other as the main "work" rather than #unhealthy #competition or destruction as show by our '#leaders' who give us unhealthy '#jobs' to do (often bad work or not improving communication).

A new system... Make friends.

Better than watching leaders in Capitalism... and not really going anywhere... Build up and support each other. Nobody else will.

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How? / The Method:
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Improve your Words / Dictionary

Clear up these meanings listed below in yourself first!

Show you CARE + RESPECT more visibly (online or offline) as well as healthy critique.

DO WHAT #CAPITALISM CUTS OUT (THE CARING!) %

GROW PEOPLE EMOTIONALLY
BY USING EMOTIONALLY BETTER WORDS...

Vocabulary words below...
Try writing a few of these as your homework or for kids!

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TRY PRINT / ADD TO WALL / FRIDGE
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For home for relationships
At work for nicer environments

WRITE THEM OUT! Help people SEE the words!

Relativity grows from people and more relativity in the world THE BETTER!... #LoveSystem #SystemofLove / #Fediverse #Friendship

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VOCABULARY
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█ Care

(close attention, concern or responsibility) (noun)

█ Clarity

(the quality, clarity or sharpness of speech)

█ Listening

(to pay attention to a sound) (verb)
(hear out until that person has finished) (verb)

█ Affinity

(characterized by affirmation, constructiveness, or influence for the better; favourable)

(affiliation - The relationship resulting from affiliating one thing with another) (noun)

(association - a connection to or an affiliation with something)

█ Experience

(event(s) of which one is cognizant) (noun)

(activity which one has performed) (noun)

█ Measurability

(able to be measured / quantified) (adjective)

(regular - with constant frequency)

█ Practiced

(actual practice or experimentation, in contrast to just theory) (noun)

(to introduce - to bring into practice)

(to grow stronger)

█ Honesty

(quality of being honest) (noun)

█ Sociability

(sociable, gregarious, affable)
(friendly, courteous, sociable) (adjective)

█ Curiosity

(inquisitiveness; the tendency to ask questions, investigate, or explore) (noun)

█ Compassion

(deep awareness of the suffering of another) (noun)

█ Imagination

(image-making power of the mind) (noun)

(creativity or creative thoughts)

█ Reliability

(regular in timing or other way)

█ Therapy

(treatment of disease) (noun)

(psychological study)

(social psychology / counseling)

(counseling / ontology (study of being) (noun)

psychosis (mental disorder or distortion) (noun)

█ Transparency

(quality of being transparent) (noun)

█ Confidence

(expression or feeling of certainty) (noun)

(self-assurance) (noun)

█ Commitment

(religious - committed to the practice of religion)

(commit - to pledge or bind; to compromise, expose, or endanger) (verb)

█ Passion

(any great emotion) (noun)

(suffering of Jesus) (noun)

(theology - study of God, or a god, or gods) (noun)

█ Respect

(tolerance) (noun)

(to have regard for the rights of others) (verb)

(self-respect - knowledge of one's own worth) (noun)

(admiration for a person)
{transitive}

(to honour - (show praiseworthiness, respect) (noun)

(to bow (to bend oneself as a gesture of respect or deference)

█ Moderation

(to a moderate, in some degree or level of presence or position) (adverb)

█ Sincerity

(quality of being sincere) (noun)

█ Logic

(method of human thought) (noun)

(theory in logic - a set of axioms and all statements derivable from them) (noun)

█ Experimentation

(thought experiment)

(practice / practical experiment - actual operation or experiment, in contrast to theory experiment)

█ Teaching

(evangelistic - enthusiasm for a cause or teaching about some parts of something)

(religious evangelism - promoting the preaching and dissemination of the Christian gospel, teachings of Jesus or any of the spiritual leaders who are assumed to be authors of the Gospels in the New Testament: Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John)

█ Appreciation
(to value highly) (verb)

(to be grateful for something) (verb)

(admiration - adoration) (noun)

█ Welfare
(health, safety, well-being, happiness and prosperity) (noun)

(humanitarian concerned with people's welfare) (adjective)

(humanity - human beings as a group) (noun)

█ Relief

(removal of stress or discomfort) (noun)

(catharsis - a therapeutic technique to relieve tension) (noun)

(assist - help) (verb)

assistant (person who assists or helps someone else)

█ Forbearance

(forbearing, forgiving, tolerant)

█ Toleration

(tolerance (ability to tolerate) (noun)

█ Awareness

awareness (the state of consciousness) (noun)

awareness (the consciousness of a state, or state of mind) (noun)

█ Openness

(receptiveness to new things) (noun)

(intimacy - feeling of closeness and openness towards someone else) (noun)

█ Reasoning

(action of the verb 'to reason') (noun)

(rational - capable of reasoning) (adjective)

█ Diversity

(quality of being diverse; difference) (noun)

(biodiversity - diversity of flora and fauna) (noun)

█ Confluence

(meeting - gathering for a purpose) (noun)

(merging of similar or different elements into a union)

(Flowing - liquid or metaphorically; flowing freely like water; fluid; not solid and not gaseous)

(mix - stir two or more substances together) (verb)

█ Fun

(have fun - enjoy oneself) (verb)

(fun - enjoyment or amusement) (noun)

(have fun - wish someone a good time) (interjection)

█ Kindness

(being kind) (noun)

(heart - emotions or kindness) (noun)

█ Patience

(quality of being patient) (noun)

(not losing one's temper while waiting) (adjective)

█ World-view

(personal view of the world) (noun)

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█ Unity - the state of being one or undivided) (noun)

█ Friendship (countable) - friendly relationship) (noun)

█ #Religion - system of beliefs dealing with soul, deity and/or life after death) (noun)

█ Balance

(to balance / counterbalance)

(to equilibrate - to bring into equilibrium)

(well-balanced; in equilibrium itself or eco-system) (adjective)

(mentally stable and free from psychological disorder) (adjective)

(Calm, serene, well-balanced, all-rounder).

█Knowledge

(fact of knowing about something; understanding, familiarity with information) (noun)

(study - mental effort to acquire knowledge) (noun)

identity (knowledge of who one is) (noun)

█Courage

(quality of a confident character) (noun)

(gutsy - marked by courage) (adjective)

(courageous (of an action, that requires courage) (adjective)

(bold courageous, daring) (adjective)

(direction - indication of the point toward which an object is moving) (noun)

█Coherence

(coherence - quality of cohering; of being coherent) (noun)

(coherent - orderly, logical and consistent) (adjective)

█Goodwill

(good-natured - of or pertaining to a perpetual kind disposition) (adjective)

(the forces or will of good) (noun)

(as a result of good will by someone / a group) (noun)

(showing friendliness or goodwill - warm, approachable)

(fair, justified) (adjective)

(self-denial - an action that sacrifices one's own benefit for the good of others) (noun)

█Health

(state of being free of physical or psychological disease, illness, or malfunction) (noun)

(psychological fitness - general level of positive or thoughts) (adjective)

(body fitness- general physical structure of a human or animal) (noun)

(cure - a method, device or medication that restores good health) (noun)

█Healthy Community

(community - group of people sharing a common understanding) (noun)

(perception - conscious understanding of something) (noun)

█Education

(process or art of imparting knowledge, skill and judgement) (noun)

(self-study (study without the aid of a formal education institution) (noun)

(self-education; self-directed learning) (noun)

█Satisfaction

(fulfilment of a need or desire) (noun)

█Perseverance

(persevere - to live, survive) (verb)

(Psychology: perseverate - repeat a response after the cessation of the original stimulus)

█Solidarity

(union of interests, purposes or sympathies among members of a group)

(unifying bond between individuals with common goal or enemy) (noun)

(psychological or material support) (noun)

to solidify (to become solid)

█Reflection

(act of reflecting, thinking more)

(careful thought or consideration) (noun)

█Empathy

(understanding situation)

(sympathy - as a person / humanity) (noun)

█Calm

(free from anger and anxiety) (adjective)

(calmly - in a calm manner) (adverb)

(condition of being unworried and free from anger) (noun)

(peaceful - motionless and calm; placid) (adjective)

(relaxation - act of relaxing or the state of being relaxed) (noun)

█Courteous

(showing regard for others) (adjective)

(affable - friendly, courteous, sociable) (adjective)

█Flexible

(easily bent without breaking) (adjective)

(flexibility - quality of being flexible) (noun)

█Understand

(know / grasp - to understand an idea or subject) (verb)

(to be aware of the meaning of) (verb)

▌(to stand under authority - "I understand this letter means XYZ terms and conditions...")

(hard experience shared in sympathy / consolation as a human being) (adjective)

█Gamification

(to treat as a sport)

(a regular "game" using of certain active variables from life and usually achievements, rewards, medals, acknowledgement given in virtual or non-virtual ways sometimes as incentive)

█Variation

(not just one way always)

(to play and have fun in other ways)

█Communication

(messages or interaction between people)

(carrier of a way, acting as messenger for a person or philosophy)

█Persistence

(continuous)

(not giving up easily)

█Understanding

(being flexible with someone or about any issue or topic)

(grasping / knowing the real core point of it all, usually from time invested and dedicated looks into something)

(empathy / sympathy)

█Exploration

(travel for the purpose of discovery)

(careful systematic search)

(systematic consideration)

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WHAT WE ALL WANT FROM OF THESE WORDS.... BECAUSE WE'RE HUMAN - I THINK THEREFORE I AM...
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We all want for love / care / respect "or else" the opposites start to occur like cancer (various levels) and things (people) get left neglected and also untrained.

We let the bad in by not doing the good basically as it's a kind of maintenance / repair-as-you go.
NOT just "we wait until it's fully broken!" or when person gets suicidal!)
Just the way things are and how things get without caring and doing the people work in every level of life during everything.

As much as you "don't have time" all these things (or their opposites) do catch up - so this is actually saving your time when you family or project doesn't fall apart!!! The damage is reduced / people don't waste our time later or bad things happen still but not without healthy use of healthy ways and even disconnection can be done better at the end and lessons learned much better ! So to practise talking now (at whatever level) pays off in the end to do more careful work together / constructing something beyond

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CAPITALISM IS BETTER FASTER NO?
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Capitalism also as we have learned CAPITALISM DOESN'T WORK - it does care for what you think or choose - it's mostly authoritarian and profit-minded.

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START YOUR OWN SYSTEM
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It can mean starting something from this perspective that communication is better - because it's true many people just won't listen - but who is also offering or training people in these things - maybe you with this printed!

Yu literally have to create life yourself if it doesn't exist (on top of existing very pure sources, like I did with this list from the dictionary !!
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THE END RESULT?
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Once you as individually and family learn to print and share these things (stick on your fridge/door), it's techniques and sentiments can "live on themselves" (in others)...

WHY YOU TEACH ME ANYTHING - YOU'RE PROFILE IS A JOKE!

Love / care / respect is an intentional system, individually carried out for overall humanity - I'm not an NGO or anything big but as a human I stand or good - measurably, words and actions.

This can also start with you and more people taking just 1 picture and having the atmosphere of it reach others (give peaceful words a chance?)... We just needs humans to spread it somewhat and daily conversations get better as and people talk more and pass better words on

Sticking it up somewhere (fridge or wall) as is a good conversation point and piece of interest / meditation / discussion during dinner etc.

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LOVE GOES OUT AND COMES BACK AROUND AND IN.
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Much love goes out to humanity, get in contact if interested...

We know how it feels without love of various kinds (at work, home, outside) - so let's not neglect any of these smaller things - I'm not even talking big "love" / hippyness, but the smaller things and bigger efforts to improve vocabulary and practice it at home / on the internet as group chats etc... all can be a better therapy

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WHY THESE WORDS?
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"System of Love" is from a list I collected over the years in my own relationships and looked them all up either from my words, partners or observations (everyone in my life!)

Related to love, care and respect needed between people more words are sometimes very crucial in heated battles or complex situations... learn well as it makes for less anger or else all hell breaks loose!

Boost if you would like to see more of these things practised in life.

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ALSO FOR THE SCIENCE TYPES
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#QOTO and #STEM perhaps are not alway emotionally minded or trained so it's also for people who don't' get exposed to why it's important to talk (to human, not just computers!).
Even as a science or biology consider of that mainly starts and ends with emotions (human input output) - check out Bruce Liption!

That goes beyond externally programming machines and more capitalistic styles of hiring people just to get stuff done - because computers and capitalism are without caring mostly and don't ask or design around what people think - it's mostly top-down authoritative (at least in modern day #STEM).

Learning love (or to love others) or even to fight well, isn't exactly what school teaches everyone so we need these kinds of posters and reminders...

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System of Love by #FreeSchool
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ANTI-WORDS DICTIONARY
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█ Globalisation - Globalisation (a process of making world economy dominated by capitalist models) (noun)

or

- process of going to a more interconnected world) (noun)

▌(credit and debit - balance of an account) which as a banking system can never be balanced as money is constantly loaned again and again creating more debt than equalisation

▌(debt / society balance - an action, state of mind, or object one has as an obligation to perform for another) (noun)

▌(money owing - that one person or entity owes or is required to pay to another) (noun)

#FreeSchool #Friendships

#Independent Humanitarian #Project Work (no #grants, #institutions etc)

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Project QOTO is to used to see how many users are interested in future projects by writing a simple "hello" message more visibly in this thread.

This thread helps us see who is motivated and what kinds of skills we have to work with, to then link the existing interests and ideas into future projects.

By not defining things too strictly from the beginning we allow ourselves to find out the answers (using ourselves) and show the positive attempts as we go. Welcome to Project QOTO.

There are no commitments with the "hello" message and you can remove that at any time.

If you have existing ideas for a project, or a "back burner" project or two , then please add that in a separate post or inside your own profile description for people to check out.

Use #ProjectQoto hashtag to check this thread at any time and see progress.

@freemo has confirmed this as a unofficial #QOTO #project with his approval while he does other things meantime. For now we can see the ideas we have between us here, and use what social is really good for, bringing individuals together and forming whatever people like and love to do already and consider doing more of it!

regards, #ProjectQOTO
(which includes you hopefully!)

Again, a simple "hello" is enough for people to see your profile and what you are already interested in.

Online Voice Conversations
- Towards Safer / More Intentional Community Spaces

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Audio Introduction:
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https://bin.dembased.xyz/communication-group-introduction-v5-freeschool.mp3

ANY QUESTIONS ?
YOUR FEEDBACK PLEASE.

#New #Community #Project

Keywords: #SafeSpace #Learning
#BaumDialogue + #NVC + #TGroups
#NonViolentCommunication
#Training#Authentic
#Personal #Relationship #Listening #Skills
#Relational #Communication #Audio #Conversation
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Text Versions of Project
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▌Authentic Communication practice.

▌Developed by the people intentionally who join.

▌The intention together is to increase the trust in practising communication and feelings with others and train ourselves better communication and learn techniques while accepting risk or offense is naturally part of like but a needed effort towards growing better people.

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Sources of Education
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T-Groups
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/T-groups

Bohm Dialogue
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bohm_Dialogue

Marshall Rosenberg / NVC
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nonviolent_Communication

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Verbal Description
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Growing better communication might sound odd but people are increasingly becoming faster but more shallow in communicating assisted by government and technology cutting out the depths of understanding each other and simply being work based. The human sides itself are being omitted and therefore the human details and care taken out / left out.

Much like Capitalism's practices a cold system doesn't care and wants for only money and work based "work" and uses Technology (Robotic short text communication) to achieve raw work while undoubtedly humans are involved and need care or just respect.

Stakes are often too high outside or offline in-person - this risks your safety (your job / livelihood and risks relationships tied to many things non-detachable unlike online presence)

/ ? Offline spaces don't exist anymore as funding has been cut and we also need to solve that.

This means some risk in trying (as with offline) and developing feelings rather than falling into the trap of argument is going to save us all a lot in the future if we would like to try learn it and hear others doing well.

Doing with others helps improve us all especially since there is almost nothing like this which you don't have to pay for.

This is a free service for the betterment of yourself and others from past works sourced from people like David Baum and T-group style conversations (have a definite template and Round Robin style meetup online)

The idea here is you can practice more safely where you can't at work and even at home because the understanding and focus

As it's acronym suggest AND I see it aligned towards a more-human-improvement and personalisation for a server instance rather than more-isolated general blogging you see on the timeline here and most everywhere.

The "work" being the users and server more personally with each other improving what they already do and towards their personal aims...

Questioning Others to Teach Ourselves ?

or

uestioning thers to Learn urselves ?

It's seems you're almost alone in this wørld - never heading towards #togetherness ?

ø = A set containing no elements.
(or nearly empty as it is here as less connected blogging)

#QOTO is spear-headed by @ freemo (deliberately spaced as I've already tried and said I won't bother him).., He or this place is not actively aiming or interested to develop to it's potential form and full growth as I see the acronym being already from it's name. But hey that's labels for you, it can be nothing orientated to encourage being more personal blogging between us... like Weaving...

Because, as I see it IT'S THE RIGHT HUMAN RESPONSE TO THE WORLD AND EACH OTHER:

The human response is to what is being cut out of our lives... this human interaction and personal learning is exactly stopping us getting together and learning how to do things better (I'm not saying it will be perfect from start and you should expect alternative ways to be so).

So it's not just job or "project" based learning (paid incentivisation from who knows who backing things) unless the project is human interaction and practice itself as a more giving open independent form).

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PASSIONS AND PEOPLE
( WITHOUT PROFIT AS MAIN REASON FOR CONTACT )
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My attempts have failed. Not even getting backing to do some talking regularly as a semi-official QOTO thing ( helps to have it as an official test to encourage people to join and ensure it's going somewhere, being judged by all and not a scam ultimately - and instead building and backing ourselves with our #passions ) .

So not testing things is also a sign of the same lacking of exploration / experimenting / allowing population to make things their own and build themselves with some help / backing...

It seems the acronym is aligned to performing as it's name suggests (a big reason why I joined) but instead I'm also on a 'general social' as you might be reading this.

So it's acronym is lacking as I see it here towards my more-human personal-level improvements rather than the usual general blogging which is what I see here... Trump War Elon YAWN - when are we going to improve ourselves as dedicated to all that crap (you can still have it but do the personal work and help others also grow) ?

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MORE RISK / TESTING
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Some place that takes users by the horns and runs with them / tests their ideas almost blind is very much needed. Suggests where...

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SO WHY ARE YOU STILL HERE ?
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I would be off this server already BUT #MASTODON DOESN'T EVEN EXPORT DATA TO SOMETHING READABLE OFFLINE LIKE TWITTER give as output exactly the same as online... IT'S A JSON FILE with mastodon: Mastodon ...
L L

so I'm stuck here unless I leave my data in a format that doesn't already link even the pictures and text together offline.
Sad.

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SUMMARY
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So seems QØTØ is not actively doing and not aiming for more after all the chats I've had.

Yet another occasionally two-way text service and social general- with "once I had the great idea" for an acronym as it's URL.

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SO WHY MENTION IT SO MUCH DOOD?
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I believe passionately that the human effort is to do with what #capitalism realizes works to cut out for profit and what we need to put back in which is the focus on human interactions and micro transactions learning about each person instead of almost avoiding exchange as text-based system rather than personalisation and heading towards our dreams (under the QOTO banner for example like a school of learning - @freeschool )

Audio chat #Jitsi with safety / anonymity in mind is for the way for me.

Something more of a human improvement in all "sectors" of our personal #projects and #dreams is what I seek - NOT just more tech development and near-0 human emotional / rational improvement... as the acronym suggests?

Questioning Others to Teach Ourselves ?

or...

uestioning thers to Learn urselves ?

It's seems you're alone in this wørld!

ø = A set containing no elements.

#peace #project #world #friendship #dream #together
#centralisation #world #love

A scheduled TEDTalk style day is tomorrow (Sunday 25th August) where people talk about their own stuff... say 30mins max each.

Comment to stay in touch with this...

Giving audience to people I guess is quite a great thing.

If we are not doing this then we are also losing on finding each other / refining our own work.

COMMENT TO JOIN INTEREST

#PROJECT #GIVEATALK
#FreeSchool #Audio #Children

Join instant chat - for example could be:

https://jitsi.riot.im/publictalks (subject to change, comment stay in touch with this)

Message anytime and then we'll see what you think / propose.

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MORE INFO
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An audience on etc listening I think we can really see as a new kind of 'entertainment' for those willing or those that have no other way and wish to practice...

ANON SPEAKER #1 ____________ 12PM
TOPIC __________________

ANON SPEAKER #2 ____________ 12.30PM
TOPIC __________________

ANON SPEAKER #3 ____________ 1.00PM
TOPIC __________________

WHY DO A CHAT?

Dying without giving an audience to other people I guess is actually a bad thing because

doesn't test yourself and test your work WITH people (just a static doc on disc is no good!)

we are not being heard for many things (which governments are making sure of on everything).

We could do it more often in more private or public ways! (people choose)

Join us here for example:
https://jitsi.riot.im/

Message anytime.

Make each other's wish come true...

(A great daily stream of messages someone can find and help you to do...) #Wish #Project #FreeSchool

#RUGPULLS = ANY #COMPANY
+ CHANCES 100% INCREASED WITH #VENTURECAPITALISM for #STARTUP #PROJECT

wHOOPS there goes another one!

https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Rug%20pull

TLDR - this is a template and test to pay people for their attention just see if that works for small sample of people - maybe 10.
- How to pay (the methods) ?
- How to get real attention (interaction) ?

I think people are too ingrained into money so that's why I'm going for this way.
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Premise:
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1/ I have some money to burn so people need worry less because it's one-way thing (I'm not asking you for money)

2/ I need to get your attention as everyone is such a #NoPlayer or fake who just yaps about peace etc but can't do it as #interaction / #finding something better to do than chase the #news or #money

I'm not hiding my test or looking to burn anyone - make sure of that.

I'm "buying" people's interest (hoping it's mutual interest) because talking about money first is "being real" in today's world more for you or others. though I don't usually do that and chat to whoever confident people are more genuine than not and anyway can't do much with poor projects. (I accept over the internet maybe that money is the way - otherwise you would have followed me already and talk but you're too scared or whatever excuse I don't know you tell me)

We were purely grown from crappy money(debt) so even though it's hard for me to accept I have to accept this fact and give back this money at some point or do something with it more than create more debt and invest in a house which is pointless and makes it worse.

So for most people (even if they pretend) without money or incentive it mostly doesn't work. You need a front for people these days - it's horrible but let's not hide our desperation for this material that decreases in value each time it is loan (and reloaned while in you bank account)

SO we want it to work less with money HUH? (some of us)

So buying your time isn't buying you let's say - it's speeding things up without fucking people behind their back and being transparent about it, at least giving it to good / better people....

#Free #Money #Project- Join and Get Money?!

Ah fuck it I'll resume this another time...

And do let me know what you think... we can make this clear so people thinking they will get burned can vouch or tell people "hat I'm really doing" if it deviates from what I've said... not problem in that... but anyway you're not going to so anything mostly in terms of communication (even on your terms)... probably.

Why film sequels and people don't work...

...because the more detail you add... the more...

█ offended viewer / receiver can become...

█ it wasn't what they thought originally, or perhaps wanted something else in sequel etc (it was nicer for them when it was ambiguous or broader concept)...

█ it becomes too complex or detailed...

█ things are done in a time or feeling that can be lost or simply different (like a different film crew entirely or few essential employees were not there or there too much to reflect actual intended result)...

█ what we see is not the reality (or there is more to it than the film or person we see). This can change the whole perception (of what we see as end result since we don't see early production or life of person or film before)...

█ becomes more human or obvious someone is changing or developing the story - often people want it to "stay" as it is which means no change, which is sometimes impossible especially as things do tend to move or should be though films and people do like it to "stay the same" in memory or reality...

e.g. The forest i your childhood eventually dies... sad not just from using wood for fire or commercial logging but naturally some insects can come from time to time and clean out a forest...

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(Disclaimer: above or original premise is not "all the time", but reliably in my experience and more often as human observation / calculation, "more" = the things listed above come in equation a lot more...)
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#Relationship #People #Friendship #Films #Freedom #Project #Management

The common denominator between us, is talking.

The opportunity I present today, is to embrace that by talking to me:

https://qoto.org/@freeschool/111629539902807161

#Mastodon #Project #Fediverse

Your Love and Logic Podcast #1

Mastodon based communication to encourage co-operative style contributions and participation

Messages and submissions welcome of any kind.

Listen, Follow, click Notification Bell for updates & new audio.

Let me know what you think! @freemo @bhaugen
#Mastodon based #podcast #peace #project #audio #love #logic

#freework #freedomwork #volunteers #project

Hello, I look for good* work* to do for free / without payment for you personally or projects (usually small)

* 'Good' work is measurable according to me, you ...then others (naturally less pure or unclear after >2 people unless they have good communication before or during work).

#freework #freedomwork #volunteers #project

Please use this hashtag if you also are looking for freedom and for people to 'do what they love' to do and 'work' themself out of problems and not the commercial sense of work (this needs conversation but yes it's possible and educational to understand you idea). So not just for free labour and not for stealing but mutually for and together towards freedom.

Thank you for your attention. Ask me for details.

With positive feelings / greetings to you - Any small thought welcome... Thanks

#freework #freedomwork #volunteers #project

IDEAS FOR YOUR #PROJECT (and Project Karrot)
https://fosstodon.org/@karrot/107495900083122426

What would I like to see?
What would interest me enough to want to participate?

Answers:

- Talk in real conversation with me / anyone interested (maybe you have already- mix people in). Audio communication practice is a good overall.

- weed us out (see what is a yes / what is a 'not sure'... what we like / what we do already for fun that can be with you for fun with us / fulfil dreams along way somewhat / listen all day (I can do this) / balance what we thought or think it is / isn't.... and then all can be full circle back to you / us

- Hold a virtual meeting for the above in soft group way. 'you' (polite plural in sentence) manage it / I manage it / we try taking turns or pair up- to hold 1 to 1 / 1 to many / keeping whatever someone throws in mind and connecting dots then and after in everything!

- A personal wishlist ('you' plural for project and 'you' personal as it all again comes back around again)
An activity potential or imagination (percieved by Karrot and suggested by me / others, maybe general soft notes from meeting to keep those who like that, hand-drawn pictures whatever kids like / find accessible)
- Talk to me more and then you can decide better for yourself where you, I and others can fit in or stand as we like... tough but someone has to do it :)

And it helps if you have time or can help others that don't or don't know how to manage their own time. Happy to test people out a bit and be tested.

So all, ask me for a chat now or... now.... or... now! or choose a time yourself if not now and we can use something like this :

https://meet.jit.si/chataboutproject

@mariha