Introduce Dependency and then you can degrade everything from that point onwards...
Introduce Dependency and then you can degrade everything from that point onwards...
@punishmenthurts @actuallyautistic How about singing it?
I could even some basic beat or music to it just to see what you think. But first do a test for yourself... and consider recording it here and send me the link:
vocaroo.com/
@punishmenthurts Excellent, good to know as a kind of disclaimer and useful to hear either way.
How is the server your on / autistics.life - happy with it as provider and conversations there locally?
@punishmenthurts Just looked it up (thanks for the tip) although seems it's more romantically linked which it most certainly isn't mainly...
what do you think?
Hmm I can see relative branches are similar and correct without the love parts (or maybe feeling of wanting to be loved) but still think it's too focussed perhaps or misleading (on quick look of all of this new word to me...)
Hmm... maybe feeling of wanting to be loved / accepted is the root of this...
@learninglifer Good idea but it would get shut down - it's no sarcasm to say "it's too caring" and actually letting so many clever active heartfelt people rise up is a direct threat to an uncaring 'system'.
A system who is actually often those types but hiding behind a system of ways... in 'logical' world yes, in current world no - which is not saying no to idea but we really have to do all these website's and online-ism's a bit better so it's concrete and less individually attacked (once something work's whether it's a hydrogen engine invention and affect to fossil fuel industry) or any change that gets people off the mainstream. more dumbed down, aggressive version.
Do you repeat and curse when nobody is around?...
What is that called?
The phenomenon of repeating things to yourself and words of another person who has said it to you. Your self-comments are about a situation, often about those people you've had relationship with or encounter in a negative way. It's left as an unresolved matter at least for you, sometimes irreconcilable as an outcome, that stimulates you endlessly to curse or repeat things that may feel to you unfair, logical or unfair. .
A displeasing experience that bothers you can linger for a long time (months / years) including things that are on-going or world's condition in general - things that you want changed or saying and you repeat to yourself often in dissatisfaction about it when alone, but hold back in front of people or fear letting it all out at the same time and being seen as aggressive.
Many think they don't repeat things to themselves but they just don't do it in front of others.
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Irreconcilable situations...
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The brain might not be able to reconcile or accept what has happened and happening, so you repeat the words of someone else in an angry, disappointed. etc way...
This often not your fault at all or entirely or even the person's fault at all or entirely, sometimes the dis-ease is accounted for by environment which is the exact mirror of people not interested in resolving things or talking about it at all or regularly making time for it. The individual reflection is of evolution of society as a whole (evolution of design of previous people, say Capitalism or industrialisation, which show current shape and and state of what is invested into life and cut out, including time for individuals educating themselves (or not). And even with time perhaps the want to educate or talk is so poor we are almost exiled or sentenced into this position from no other choice and everything being in disrepair with nobody paid specifically for caring (ideally caring being put into everything)...
So the whole cutting out by systems end up with less human humans.
I see illness like this coming from communities or humanity itself - not always an individual's fault or bad logic (it's like asking a fish to continue about it's business without putting enough water in the bowl and just barely keeping it alive).
No longer making space, not entertaining the strange or offensive, not even expecting longer talk about deeper issues ever is the main contributing reason as that grows this or that types of disease (mean here as dis-ease or not feeling at ease because systems are not geared for for caring or even factor it in).
I may have this wrong so the post is a work in progress (and needs your help perhaps).
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Summary
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Repeating to one's self from unhappy outcomes in the past or present...
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Inspired by a thread by @pathfinder and people in that here:
https://beige.party/@pathfinder/113302925197251496
#Autism #ActuallyAutistic #NeuroDivergent #mentalhealth #healthcare #mutualaid #MutualAidRequest #disability
"Overexplaining is a trauma response" (just saw this quote)
which is relevant to my question and topic by Heather Cook 🖖[Autistic Coach] hmm_cook@universeodon.com
@GenXotaku1971 @hellomiakoda @pathfinder @Susan60 @actuallyautistic
Now I have my diagnosis, and the paper that says that I'm legally disabled. Though I don't really like that, but it can come handy, as I'm now a "protected" worker
@ScriptFanix
@pathfinder @Susan60 @GenXotaku1971 @actuallyautistic
There's close to 1000 accounts following me. All I do here is spew the contents of my brain, and share things I find funny and/or interesting.... and people click a button to keep hearing it. It's... I'm not used to it. I grew up constantly being told to shut up, nobody wanted to hear me, my ideas, my thoughts.
@pathfinder @actuallyautistic
#MeToo (in the context of what you wrote)
So much resonates, and typically the best thing is to stick together and talk more, but many can't deal with the mass and speed... but if you can then my offer is to talk and work our way out of it.
Luckily if around nature and having gardening type things it's really helped BUT I want to help us all as nature is also reducing so finding people who...
... A/ can write how you feel
... B/ can say it so well
... gives me hope in the overall scope that we CAN make something out of it ourself if we can allow the amount of mass and perhaps stress that goes with talking (and healing).
Look forward to all people in reply and I will personally respond unlike others online not willing to put themselves on the line or deal with more 'stress' (conversation) accepting there's no perfect way but keep trying with only ourselves and those others that allow conversation.
I write long so this is in short for now... let's keep busy
Music and Conversation works as good therapy!
🧠 #MentalHealth #AuDHD /
➡️ #Autistic / #ADHD /
🔁 #Neurodivergent
I liked this show for the slow chat in between and during audio...
Congrats that formula works...
❓ What do you think having it spread here on Fediverse?
as dedicated conversation?
( is that too much hassle to check here constantly / multiple platforms? )
❓ How is discord, facebook working out for you and conversation.?
Would be good to chat about topics here on Mastodon / Fediverse.
I'd be happy to do more here on Fediverse / Mastodon as a semi-collab.
✉️ Let me know what you think of above points, thanks
I have been asked to try my hand at #GMing for a group I play with. Does anyone have good ideas for easy-to-run #TTRPGs that are #Blind #Accessible and #AuDHD / #ActuallyAutistic / #ADHD / #Neurodivergent - friendly?
Boosts appreciated for further reach.
More money than sense 🧠 / love 💗 + mostly men damaging things / doing crazy work... (some potentially sexist observations & experience)
More money 💰 than sense 🧠 / love 💗
(and some potentially sexist observations / experience)
More money than sense seems true even in my life when I have it because any money is a type of crazy power or accumulated stupidity from mostly bad practices mostly generated from from war and division, or war like pressing down on people more than incrementing more personally or sharingly.
The arbitrary valuation of what is sacred (us, earth, the magical) priceless and is not possible to value. We shouldn't even have a number over our head.
The war-like template by uncaring and unloving people damages things. And this is where I blame mostly men.
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WHY MEN MOSTLY?
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I would say flexing their ego muscles whereas as women giving birth constantly give and don't have as much physical muscle so look for other ways... and of course giving birth yourself personally means you have direct appreciation for life and can see others as one of your own or imagine... whereas men (don't want to seem harsh but seems true) are natural destroyers (which can also provide in it's own way) but locked in financial spirals downwards (debt) becomes systematic illness like chopping trees that are not endless and becomes unhealthy for than man and all under the same system.
#Money #Debt #Bank #Devaluation
= #Deforestation #Trees #Building #Construction #Climate #Habitat #ClimateChange
= #BadWork #Uncaring #People
Nonviolent Action and Strategies, 2007
Effective # Nonviolent Struggle
#BOOK #QUOTE $STUDENT #TEACHING #Curriculum
https://www.nonviolent-conflict.org/resource/guide-effective-nonviolent-struggle-2/
3 parts:
I/ Theory and its applications: The goal of these lessons is to provide a concrete framework for people to understand how nonviolent action works. First, all movements start with the desire for change, so we offer a methodology to help groups develop their vision for what they want to achieve (Lesson 1). We then address how nonviolent movements can gain the power to achieve that vision. By emphasizing that political power comes from people’s ongoing consent and obedience to their society’s political, economic, and social systems, it becomes clear that nonviolent movements can gain power and create change by shifting people’s consent and obedience patterns (Lesson 2). In order to do this, nonviolent resisters must understand the roles that key organizations and institutions (which we call “pillars of support”) play in their society (Lesson 3), what people’s motivations are for consent and obedience (Lesson 4), how nonviolent movements produce change in society (Lesson 5), and the tactics and methods that nonviolent movements have at their disposal (Lesson 6).
2/ Planning considerations: There is rarely victory for nonviolent movements without a strategic plan. Therefore, an understanding of basic strategic principles (Lesson 7) as well as tools and techniques to analyze their past and current situation (Lesson 8 and Lesson A1) is important as movements develop their strategic plans. An essential part of those plans will be communications. How do movements effectively communicate what they stand for? Developing effective messages and analyzing audience segments (Lesson 9) and understanding the tools and types of targeted communications (Lesson 10) are essential. Targeted communication is one of the most important parts of any movement’s strategic plan.
3/ Organizational and operational considerations: Nonviolent movements are faced every day with stresses in the areas of leadership (Lesson 11), fear-management (Lesson 13), and avoiding contamination (Lesson 14), so they need to be prepared. They also need to be tactically innovative and choose issues and actions that put their opponents in dilemmas (Lesson 12). Finally, management of key resources (material resources, human resources, time, and knowledge) are critical to operating a nonviolent movement or campaign. The advanced campaign management package (Lessons A2, A3, A4, and A5) addresses these issues.
CREDIT: Srdja Popovic, Slobodan Djinovic, Andrej Milivojevic, Hardy Merriman and Ivan Marovic
Centre for Applied Nonviolent Action and Strategies, 2007
Belgrade, Serbia — 2007
ISBN: 978-86-7596-087-4
#Love is the best value )perhaps #token)
Humans hold it within them rather than carry like money...
But it needs learning / training....
(...the #respect, #toleration etc)
The #Values are what we hold... (#sentimental values, cherished moments etc)
When people get what they want fast and free, they are willing to accept the bad exchange and advertising.
#YouTube is forcing #Adverts when #videos are paused...
...but people will only curse some more probably as they did when adverts were in between videos =
because when people get what they want fast and free, they are willing to accept the bad exchange and advertising.
Even be entertained by it (as long as it's not that bad... think of how much TV time is adverts and trying to catch when another program is actually running!)
#Fast + #Free = GOOD for #advertising
@kimdotcom Which, who, what's this about?
If you can’t weaponize it, it's not a good enough solution for bad people
Everything has to be a weapon.
" I asked a Nuclear Engineer why we didn’t develop safer Thorium nuclear. His response was blunt. “because you can’t weaponize it” "
-@diamondkharness
YouTube #comment / #quote
https://inv.nadeko.net/watch?v=EvzAdGkQQ7c
If you can’t weaponize it, it's not a good enough solution for the bad people in control, wanting to make sure they keep it.
#FreeSchool = #Notes #Quotes from #Books #Videos #Talks #Websites all around #DIY Care# and #Caring as our main #Politics / #Politics
#Degrowth / PostGrowth
#WellbeingEconomy #DoughnutEconomics
#CaringEconomy / #CareEconomy / #Partnerism
"Free School" is a term for a movement born from the 1960's / 70's using educational living & learning practice towards #Caring & #DIY with all others (all at the same time - not an after-thought or specialism in 1 field or person who is a #compartmentalised person ignoring others in other fields). Caring to involves more things, increasingly aiming towards everything...
Posts are 1-line #Notes and #Quotes that links all other things (it's all relative).
Long comments use CW to shorten post vertically and add a 'show more' button to reveal more text if you want it. Long posts might seem bad but it's giving chance to more connection and understanding.
All things towards #Freedom (life moving from Shorter to Deeper thought).
Freedom doesn't come from short-depth lifestyles / short lines of text / ignoring / #inaction. Not less communication between lovers of similar things. MORE!)
#FreeSchool = Learning Together 🔁
#FreeSchool = Working Together 🔁 (eventually + I do Free work for Freedom.
#FreeSchool = Co-Operating & #DIY Solutions 🔁
See My #FreeSchool (Hashtag) for latest examples anytime. Or keep open and refresh from time to time:
https://qoto.org/web/tags/freeschool
#FreeSchool ➡ Increment Talking + Peacefully solve everything.
TLDR - Inaction = Fascism
Trust comes from "slowly but surely"... Doesn't have to be all-in, but peace doesn't come from one-way short messaging on 'social' Mastodon either - collecting memes and cats only is limited!
Remember we need develop better humans as well as 'develop' code on computers etc.
☮ Peace needs more... even to save all types of cats!
Get in touch - I'm someone that cares for everything because it's all human-related...
Human #chats welcome - I using #Jitsi audio chat which uses JUST browser (ANY PLATFORM + 2minutes to enter !)
(i.e. no-install / no account / no google / instant / privacy-respecting / safe-enough, etc!) Really the best out there - any platform / device! Instant audio chat !
Just ask for a link and prepare a few topics!
#AltText used (when I remember).
FREE WORK - I do free audio and video editing (anything considered - just ask).
Again - Creating Trust needs a bit of trust given "slowly but surely"... not all-in... being relaxed about it... but has to be more - 'working' like a 2nd job towards peace because your job isn't going to do it / it's now allow by State to get there! War increases prices etc ☮
So do "peace" as a side-job like it was your real job in the world, parallel to the Capitalism (Trap) you (we) were born into. We have to accept that and fight out of that and not be comfortable in it.
Heart and Soul all the way.