Romaq @Romaq@qoto.org

@toxomat @shelenn @ceoln

The issue with the list is that it clearly suppresses evidence that is not in line with the operators opinions, effectively lying by ommitting relevant context to distort the truth.

See my list on the talk page.. Despitte being respectful and showing a mountain of evidence to disprove the evidence claimed for QOTO on the block list none of this evidence was actually added (in fact in response they added another entry claiming I harassed her). Instead despite the polite mention I was blocked.

https://joinfediverse.wiki/Talk:FediBlock

This isnt a case of "admins make up your own mind".. this is a case of explicitly lieing, presenting on the cherry picked out of context evidence to support your agenda and suppressing all evidence that disproves the claim int he block.

Is that really a block list you want to support? I mean come on the majority of instances on the list dont even bother providing evidence.

Yeah, sure, @freemo messes up sometimes. Because he actually DOES THINGS.

He also seeks constructive criticism and corrects course. More than once a day in public.

You can be comfortable, or you can be a change agent.

@SecondJon @freemo

Good heavens! That section of the talk page certainly makes it clear now the kind of thing that's going on. It really is just a Paula Don't Like You List, which is a fine thing for Paula to have, but it distresses me that it's being advertised as some kind of centralized list that people can use.

Even though it says that everyone using it should check every item, people are lazy, and some aren't going to do that.

The point that no mod should be that lazy is well taken, so maybe any such servers are no great loss anyway, but I feel sorry for their users.

@toxomat @shelenn

@freemo @SecondJon

One of the things I've tentatively concluded in my journey from teenage libertarianism to old-guy leftism, is that being nice to shitty people is in some cases a bad idea. :)

But regardless, as Jon says, preventing all of one's users from seeing qoto, not because of anything actually on the server, but in order to indirectly pressure its mod to behave differently, seems to be a pretty weird set of priorities to me.

@toxomat @shelenn

@SecondJon

Apparently being, even to shitty people, is a dog whistle, but only when those shitty people arent you :)

@toxomat @shelenn @ceoln

@freemo @toxomat @shelenn @ceoln the latest comment reads to me as.... Despite proof Yay all stated concerns are resolved, there's still problems and if you don't know, I'm not going to tell you.

Hardly treating others well with that kind of attitude. Feels less like a vetted list and more like.. the Paula Don't Like You list. 🤣

Treating others well is one thing I think #qoto is known for. Sad that the idea isn't shared more widely.