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I am considering adding the following phrasing to QOTO’s ToC.. Before I do I’d like some feedback from the community

While QOTO aims to provide a community where our users do not fear being punished for their personal opinions, that does not mean we allow people to disseminate ideologies that are abusive or violent towards others. Demonstrating support for or defending ideologies known to be violent or hateful is a bannable offense. This includes, but is not limited to: racial supremacy, anti-LGBTQ or anti-cis-gender/anti-straight, pro-genocide, child abuse or child pornography, etc. While we allow questions and conversation regarding these topics in general, doing so in bad faith will result in immediate expulsion.

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@freemo

Those are all fair additions.
However, I personally reject the idea of making these changes. It’s illogical. You are obviously doing it because of recent events. There is no logic in this because their was no wrongdoing to initiate these changes. You did nothing wrong. I personally feel like it would be breaking an ethical standard to make these kind of changes in response to recent events. It seems like an appeasement to a unethical mob. If you were to have made these changes organically, I would see no ethical dilemma.

That said, I am probably in the minority, or at least the vocal minority, and what I say or think doesn’t really mean shit. This is your baby. Do what you feel is right.

@trinsec @khird

@obi

I tend to agree witth you.. but as the game Darkest Dungeon:

Triumphant pride precipitates a dizzying fall :)

@trinsec @khird

@freemo

True. But cave to a mob, and they will return with power 10 fold.

@trinsec @khird

@obi

On tthe one hand im more than happy to consider criticism and adapt to it if its founded… on the other i wont cave to a mob to appease them if I dont believe in it myself… in this case these words, I believe them, so I am ok with it…. but im willing to discuss further.

@trinsec @khird

@freemo

Again, I don’t really have much problem with the words, it’s the reasoning leading you to change them.

i.e Let’s say a prominent instance, who has been around forever is accused by a smaller one of being Nazis. The smaller site spreads rumors to people and it spreads like wildfire. The smaller site can provide no proof, just says to people “you don’t block them? They are Nazis”. The other sites block the bigger site, even without any proof, just word of mouth. The instance owner of the large instance changes his ToC to say “We don’t allow Nazis.” The other smaller instance will say “see, they even changed their ToC, the Nazis are trying to hide it!”. Nothing changes. The other instances don’t unblock, and the biger instance looks like they were guilty of something by changing their ToC, and gaining nothing.

Again, it’s just my view, and it doesn’t mean shit. I am no one.

@trinsec @khird

@obi

Thing is, this isnt a one off incident.. our wording has caused many problems and misunderstanding int he past.

@trinsec @khird

@freemo Do you have screenshots or evidence of these instances at least. So then I could be shown the need for such an action. I truthfully don’t know of said incidents. Were the people who said them not banned? @trinsec @khird

@freemo Actually, don’t bother showng me, you have enough on your plate. Either way my position wouldn’t change because of the even’t leading to this. You know what’s best for your situation, not me. @trinsec @khird

@obi

I appreciate your input, and generally would agree with you. But yea i think in this case it will simply be whats best fort everyone.

@trinsec @khird

@freemo @obi @trinsec @khird That sums it up for me: as long as you believe the ToC you’re changing to, then no problem. Regardless of the baying mob! The bright line is when you change it to something you don’t believe.

To your proposed wording change, what “ideologies” do you have in mind? I do like the distinction between an individual’s opinion (which is okay), and spruiking for a hate group (actionable).

I specifically chose qoto because it wouldn’t penalise an individual’s personal beliefs if expressed if they happen to be unpopular. Not that I personally have a lot of those, but that academic freedom should be the right of any individual in a free society.

@freemo @obi @trinsec @khird Ah, now I get it. I was imagining some kind of more formalised, perhaps named, ideologies. My mistake! Looks solid to me, and shouldn’t limit genuine conversation, while eliminating actual hate speech by bad actors.

@jasonetheridge

As I see it our moderation practices havent changed with any of this. It is just a clearer way to express them for some.

@obi @trinsec @khird

@obi @freemo @trinsec @khird I doubt that you are in a minority here. If so, only in the sense that others have not seen what happened to spark this.

@freemo @trinsec @khird

sounds ok. maybe put more emphasis on the STEM sciences aspect

@Alaskanviking

I tweaked it to this:

While QOTO aims to provide a community where our users do not fear being punished for their personal opinions, that does not mean we allow people to disseminate ideologies that are abusive or violent towards others. Demonstrating support for or defending ideologies known to be violent or hateful is a bannable offense. This includes, but is not limited to: racial supremacy, anti-LGBTQ or anti-cis-gender/anti-straight, pro-genocide, child abuse or child pornography, etc. While we recognize questions and conversation regarding these topics are essential a STEM community, in general, doing so in bad faith will result in immediate expulsion.

@trinsec @khird

@freemo @Alaskanviking @trinsec @khird I would split the first sentence into two, avoiding to weaken both parts.

How about:

β€œQOTO aims to provide a community where our users do not fear being punished for their personal opinions. We do not allow people to disseminate ideologies that are abusive or violent towards others.”

@freemo @Alaskanviking @trinsec @khird

(…) pro-genocide, child abuse or child pornography, etc.

More wording than anything else:

I haven’t seen people say that “child abuse” is an example of ideology (rather just a description of an act). Do you want to say pro-child abuse and pro-CP there?

@robryk @freemo @trinsec @khird

it doesnt, there are commas.

however, the words can be swapped so there is no mistake

@freemo @trinsec @khird While the suggestion itself looks reasonable in itself, i wonder if this is a good addition or just a reaction to bad behaviour from the outside.
With what happened lately, i suggest to take it slow. Pressure should not be the reason for policy changes, only reason.

Throwing around the word “bannable” could have an adverse effect. I did experience someone saying they were abused for talking about a topic. I do not know if that person acted in good or bad faith, but i think that there are people who have trouble to talk about loaded topics, and the change might affect them.

To not have any chilling effects, would it not be better to not list loaded topics, but concentrate on civility? People respecting each other seems to be our strength, i worry if we lose that if we let others mandate what we have to write.

@admitsWrongIfProven

Yea I am trying hard to find a wording that basically says “As long as your not being a racist/sexist asshat, your fine”… but there is no real perfect wording…

@trinsec @khird

@freemo @trinsec @khird The biggest problem i see is listing specific causes. If we cannot determine what is not ok, banning “bad” behaviour about the specific things is a really helpless act. We would protect some, while leaving others unprotected.

Either we can find a good frame in which discussions are ok, or we don’t. Listing specific causes will not help. It would only serve to appease those that act against an open discussion in good faith. Don’t let them do this, please.

New line: “that does not mean we allow people to disseminate ideologies that are abusive or violent towards others”

Already in the about text: “Hate speech and harassment strictly forbidden.”

I do not see the need to append anything.

@freemo @trinsec @khird And that is the problem.

If i get told that “abuse against sqares is forbidden” and i am a triangle, i feel left out. If i am a triangle that is wondering about a thing about squares, i am scared to ask.

Basically, i want to say all people should be protected from abuse. It does not matter what group they belong to. The moment we start to single out groups without a specific reason, we sacrifice that.

It would be ok to say “women should be protected from wage inequality” because there is wage inequality going on. Good thing, important, yes please.

It is not ok to say “women should be protected more”, because that would diss anyone who is not a woman. Why would we say that? People that are not women can suffer too and should be protected against whatever mean things happen to them.

So, in conclusion, a specific cause like “bad thing is happening to " warrants help for this group. General "group should have advantage" is bad because it disadvantages others for no reason.

Editing…

I was unclear on “cause”. Sorry. I used it to describe Groups of people and things that happen.

I am struggling to put this together in english, please let me know if it is not discernable that i meant.

@admitsWrongIfProven @freemo @trinsec @khird Agreed, I think anyone who needs “hateful ideologies” to be enumerated to understand what that means is the sort that this rule applies to.

@freemo @trinsec @khird I think the changes/updating of the ToC are appropriate and judicious.

@freemo @trinsec @khird This looks like a worthwhile addition. I see no harm in clarifying qoto policy. Thanks for the opportunity to comment.

@freemo @khird @trinsec I understand it as an elaboration of the statement in the preceding paragraph; as such it may be useful for clarifying what it means.

Thank you for your work!

@freemo @trinsec @khird

QOTO aims to provide a positive community environment where our users do not fear punishment or reprisal for beliefs or opinions they hold, in line with core principles of freedom of expression.

However, this tolerance does not extend to explicitly criminal, violent or abusive content; Admins will take active steps to ban any domain or account that engages in posting materials of these kinds, to secure an inclusive and social space for QOTO and greater-fediverse users.

Unacceptable expression includes, but is not limited to:

  • Hate Speech
  • Racial Supremacy
  • Gender or Sex-Based Discrimination
  • Genocide Support
  • Child Abuse

It should be made clear that discussion of these topics is permitted, but they should be discussed with care.


Yours is fine too, I just thought it was an interesting writing exercise.

@_foxaru

personally I prefer your version actually… the only downside is it is much wordier, which may be a bad thing…. hmmm

@trinsec @khird

@freemo @trinsec @khird the addition sounds fair to me but I would put child abuse and pornography separate as it's now in the ToC, because those are illegal actions and not just inappropriate conducts

@freemo @trinsec @khird

While I’m the stubborn type who would tend to agree with @obi and @admitsWrongIfProven because I generally don’t do whatever anyone is pressuring me to do, in this situation(of the little I know) I would ask yourself one question. Does adding this make my qoto-life better or easier? If the answer is yes then I think that’s what matters at this point.

@BE @freemo @trinsec @khird @obi Reasonable point. I would argue that it does make it harder.

It might “solve” the problem that some want to block us, but if they come back to not blocking us and the precedent is we caved… i foresee more demands.

Make a stand for a reasonable discussion or split. And by split i mean no contact.

In romantic relationships people sometimes don’t fit together. I think something similar applies here.

They are surely not comic book villains, they will have some motivation for what they do. But that does not mean they should be able to boss us around.

@freemo
While free speech is usually taken as “say what you want”, people often use it as an excuse to hurt other basic human rights(such as the right of honor(?, not sire about the english names))… So while i will agree for such addition, it still pains me how “ uneducated” people can be(me included sometimes)

@freemo
Maybe also add a “what is free speech” sort of section? I really hate people shitting on others and claim “free speech”

@RustyStriker Well we changed “Free Speech” to “academic Freedom” so im not sure thats needed anymore.

@freemo @trinsec @khird @_foxaru I liked the “stem community” phrasing as an important pointer to why speech would be allowed, but not so much the “bad faith”. Intentions matter but impact does also. Not sure that a psychopath ever acts in “bad faith”. (But discount my opinions due to only being here about a week.)

@Gaythia

yea i guess bad faith here isnt about intentions, its about saying you cant discuss it in a manner that demonstrates your trying to argue for its adoption.

@trinsec @khird @_foxaru

@freemo @trinsec @khird

@cstross This thread should make clear that the admins of qoto are operating in good faith.

@peterdrake

I feel like if anyone were actually following our moderation efforts until now that has been proven countless times.. but it always falls on deaf ears.

@trinsec @khird @cstross

@freemo @trinsec @khird @cstross

Context:

cstross is the author Charlie Stross, who has received the disinformation that “the Mastodon instance at qoto.org is overrun by alt-right/gamergater types using the “free speech” policy as top cover for spewing their bilious hate”.

@peterdrake

Lets hope their actually looking for evidence… I would hope our timeline alone would have disproven that one.

@trinsec @khird @cstross

@freemo @trinsec @khird I think its solid ! Nothing wrong with having discussions on sensitive topics but illegal things shouldn’t be allowed and definitely targeted harassment or hate

@freemo @trinsec @khird I like this wording, People should be free to respectfully ask each other β€œwhy do you believe that?” Likewise, when asked why we believe something, we should be encouraged to respectfully offer grounds. Free speech does not require shared beliefs. No conversation would be needed if we all thought alike! It rather requires respectful questioning, expression, and listening. We can embrace high standards both for openness and decorum. Indeed, these ideals are linked.

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